Need Advice

I need advice one what I should do in my situation. I'll be brief and probably won't go into too much details.

Basically, I did something bad and someone else found out about it and they also have proof of it. They blackmailed me into having sex with them. Being naive and dumb I accepted hoping that they would keep their promise and stop, but they obviously didn't. They kept blackmailing and they even secretly recorded us having sex. On the 2nd time I accepted again hoping maybe they would stop after the 2nd time but my hope was short lived. Each time they would request more and more fetish stuff and they even openly record it because they know I can't do anything about it. I was forced to do degrading things for a couple months now and they still have proof of what I did as well as videos and photos of me which I don't want others to see.

If I can't go to the police, what should I do?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 2, 2022 at 10:54 PM

You need to be open with the person you've cheated on. Once they know, the blackmail doesn't mean anything.
Either your partner will stay, or its over. But you get to move on with your life. As for the blackmailer, let them know you'll tell everyone just what they did, without going into detail.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 3, 2022 at 4:29 AM

Record a conversation with the blackmailer in which you ask him to stop the demands and delete the videos, and he discusses (and acknowledges) the crime.

Then tell him, or better yet have a male private investigator tell him, that it's over and he needs to delete the videos then and there or you go to the police, who will charge him not just with blackmail but with forcible s***my, if not r**e.

It's doubtful he wants to ruin your life more than he wants to spend 7 to 10 years in jail.

he deletes the photos and stof you or you go to the police.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 3, 2022 at 5:11 AM

The short version is that you're screwed. While the advice above is well intentioned, it's part of the plot of a bad TV show where the private eye swoops in to save the day.

You don't say anything about the nature of the 'something bad' that is the source of the original coercion. Are you talking about a felony level act that will cost you your job and or freedom? How big of a punishment are you looking at if the evidence of the original act is taken to your employer or the authorities?

As far as the sex stuff is concerned, unless they extorted you to the point of getting gangbanged by a bunch of teen boys while you lick the clits of a string of 6th grade girls, the biggest issue will be the embarrassment, loss of trust, and possibly ruptured personal relationships.

The flip side to how tough it would be for you to deal with exposure is how tough it will get if you continue to cringe and give in. To put it bluntly they will tire of you at some point and become even harsher in their treatment of you. Have you been turned out for prostitution yet? It's coming. As soon as the inner group is bored of you, your pussy, mouth, and ass will be on the market at cheap rates.

Have they done anything you personally consider over the line perverted? If not, get prepared because the day will come. You might want to consider picking up a set of assorted size, realistic with knot, doog dildos.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 3, 2022 at 5:55 AM

Enjoy the sex with ur blackmailer .so he doesn't need to black mail u anymore

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 3, 2022 at 6:58 AM

It's a crime what is happening, you need to tell someone. It's unlikely to stop and it will only do you harm in the long run, making you do things you do not want is sexual explotation and the video is proof of that. Plus you have no garuntee it won't get put online or sent out even if you keep doing it

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Another_55er

by Another_55er on Feb 3, 2022 at 8:57 AM

Tell your blackmailer that you've told your significant other. Then don't give into any further extortion. Should the blackmailer follow through with their threats simply tell the truth.

For retribution: Tell it loud. Tell it long. Make sure you have photos of him posted too. Tell it throughout social media such that he is forever revealed to be the asshole he is.

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