I thought guys were handsome, how come you're attractive.
you need to talk to her and encourage her to get healthy to feel better about life. either you will solve the issue or find out that it cannot be solved, and take the next step to make yourself happy.
i feel terrible for you. is your wife depressed perhaps? she could be very damaged and may need help. she probably longs to be intimate with you but does not feel attractive or desirable.
i hope things get better for you. i am in my late 20s and know very many evil single women who pray on men like you. they use sex to begin to control them and make their wives feel defeated. it's pathetic but i have seen it happen.
good luck.
Don't give her up yet.
Maybe she doesn't feel you want her anymore.
Maybe, with your encouragement, she'll get in shape (especially if she can do so with you) and you'll get your groove back.
You definitely need to try hard before you give up on your marriage.
If your thinking about cheating tell your wife but then she will be forced ti give it up and resent you.Am sorry but sex with the same man is boring.Her being overweight may not have anything to do with her lack of sexual desire.You may be hot but lets face it the same person for 13 years-boring.
IM IN THE SAME SITUATION AS YOU JUST DO NOT GIVE UP ON HER
EVERYTHING WILL EVENTUALY BE OKAY
screw sex.
