Happy Lesbian With A Husband And Family

This isn't a poll, it's more curiosity. How may lesbian women marry men? For support, to hide, to have children? I'm a 35 year old lesbian, I got married when I was 23 and I was fully aware at the time I was a lesbian, but I wanted it all, the family, the house, the PTA, I wanted and want today all that having a family entails, being sexual with my husband is a way small price to pay.

I have three daughters and I would never want them to be lesbians. My daughters are so much fun, I love them so much, anything is worth giving up to have my own family and my own home. I don't know why lesbians focus so much on sex, I am not putting them down, but all you have to do is lay there. He does all the work.

I have been in love twice, the first time starting in high school and all they way through college and then it fizzles away, one day at a time. I got married after that. The second is with my "close friend Cheryl". She's a closeted lesbian herself and we spend as much time together as we can. There is sex, or intimacy, sometimes very intense, but she understands my need for a family and she doesn't behave in a way that it would undo my marriage. AKA, she is not possessive. And she know how to play my husband.

So, am I an only one? Are there other happy lesbians out there married to a man?