Im a female and i never use any kind of tools or even my fingers just hold my thighs tight together and squeeze and squeeze and then I feel it and hold on to the feeling for as long as I can. Usually I do it about 4 times before Im tired or if i get a cramp in my calf =[ feels like a charlie horse if I am not careful with how i brace my leg muscles.
i dont know how fast it will happen with a guy. when i do it with out the vids it takes like 3-4 minutes at most. at night i get lonely and long to be cuddled but i figured out when I watch the vid or even if not just do it dry the feeling goes away I get tired and am able to fall asleep better. I feel I will not be the "sex then cuddle" type person because after I orgasm so many times I dont feel like id want anyone near me or even talk to me.
but is one minute for female bad? is the way i orgasm going to make it hard for me to be able to with a man?


