Straight Female / 52
Hiding My Past From My Husband
My husband is fairly conservative when it comes to sex and he's shown some shock and unease about some things I've said about my past sex life so I tend to not tell him anything else. It's nothing crazy I don't think, just typical stuff most people get up to when they're younger, at least in my social group back then anyway, especially when I was at university. Maybe you can be the judge?
At uni there was a core group of friends I studied and socialised with, 4 guys and myself and two other girls. After long study sessions, especially if they were one-on-one it wasn't that unusual to wind down with some form of sexual activity. It didn't happen every time but it was generally a blow job or sex.
Guy A: I'll probably start with Guy A as he was my favourite; not only was he the best endowed but he was keenest on giving me oral sex too and our sessions were one-way far less often, and he was also most keen on experimentation which I was quite heavily into myself at that time. We would experiment with bondage, watersports, different positions. One thing we would sometimes do was to pick a porn movie at random and just do whatever was happening on screen (within reason, we could obviously veto), be it a wacky position or role-play scenario, or whatever. Some nights he'd be giving me a pile-driver, or cumming on my face, or shaving me, slapping me, spitting on me, I'd prostate massage him, or he'd be my baby sitter and so on. We pretty much tried a lot including anal which never really worked for me. He really enjoyed the prostate massaging and I was happy to do it, but fingers up my own bum was only ok....we tried toys which was also ok especially if they vibrated, as well as proper anal penetration which I didn't particularly enjoy.
Guy A was also most likely to try and initiate "group" things...no gang bangs or anything, but there was a time I gave both him and Guy C a blow job, each watching as I did the other, and the two of us also had a threesome which was awkward at the start, but we got into the swing of it and I really enjoyed it. Nothing crazy, it started out with me having sex with them in turn, and when the awkwardness abated they finally spit-roasted me (which is what I was wanting to try), occasionally swapping ends, and the session ended up lasting many hours. I'd contemplated trying double-penetration, but didn't suggest it which I now regret, it was the only threesome I've ever had.
Guy B: He was my second favourite mainly because he was black and I found that very exotic at the time and considered myself incredibly bohemian, a woman of the world willing to pleasure any and all. Things were not very varied, mainly me sucking him off, andor doggy style. He liked it quite rough and liked to be vocal and liked me to me vocal too, and looking back I shudder to think what others in the neighbouring rooms must have thought. He was fine initiating me doing oral on him, but otherwise I had to initiate most of the sex, including anal one time but again it wasn't something I particularly enjoyed....I just wanted a black cock in my ass, there's nothing wrong with that :)
Guy C: Probably the most selfish so we didn't have that much sex. He was very oral orientated and for a while every time we met I gave him a blow job at least, but I don't think he ever once went down on me, so I stopped giving him so much oral. We did have vaginal sex though, more-so when I started rationing the blow-jobs, and he was the only one where anal was regular-ish, usually just for a little bit as part of a wider sex session, but sometimes for full proper sessions, beginning to end, and I discovered that of the various positions we tried for anal, me on top was probably the most manageable for me, sometimes even pleasurable, and me on top reverse cowgirl was one of his favourites too, he often came quicker in that position.
Guy D: Not much to say about Guy D, we had sex the least probably because we found ourselves in a one-on-one the least. He was the only one with a "small" penis which didn't bother me with oral, but I can't deny it did make vaginal sex less pleasurable and there were some positions it just didn't seem to work at all for either of us, so when we did it it was usually doggy. I had sex with him when asked, but never bothered initiating myself.
Girl A and B: I knew they were having sex with the other guys too, but they rarely went into details, and I kept some things back myself. One night we gave and received oral among ourselves which I didn't mind doing, it was good fun and drove the guys wild when we told them.
I always swallow which is something I just thought you did, I didn't know some girls would spit or not take it in their mouth at all. There were days I would have some form of sexual contact with more than one guy at different parts of the day. Other than BC I didn't use protection which, obviously, looking back on it was crazy but I was young and dumb, I liked the spontaneity, I liked guys cumming inside me, it made me feel good, it made me feel sexy and wanted. Also I kept things in that group, I wasn't having one-night-stands at the weekend etc.
Having known more women I think my past sexual experiences are maybe more than most, but nothing too crazy I don't think, and while my husband would probably be horrified if he knew the extent of the activity (he knows I slept with four guys at uni, he just doesn't know it lasted years and I was sleeping with them at the same time, I haven't told him I've also eaten two pussies), I think he has benefitted from it as I've learned a lot, honed my skills, I know what I want and what I like, and when he has a hankering to get a little bit naughty I know to do reverse cowgirl :)
At uni there was a core group of friends I studied and socialised with, 4 guys and myself and two other girls. After long study sessions, especially if they were one-on-one it wasn't that unusual to wind down with some form of sexual activity. It didn't happen every time but it was generally a blow job or sex.
Guy A: I'll probably start with Guy A as he was my favourite; not only was he the best endowed but he was keenest on giving me oral sex too and our sessions were one-way far less often, and he was also most keen on experimentation which I was quite heavily into myself at that time. We would experiment with bondage, watersports, different positions. One thing we would sometimes do was to pick a porn movie at random and just do whatever was happening on screen (within reason, we could obviously veto), be it a wacky position or role-play scenario, or whatever. Some nights he'd be giving me a pile-driver, or cumming on my face, or shaving me, slapping me, spitting on me, I'd prostate massage him, or he'd be my baby sitter and so on. We pretty much tried a lot including anal which never really worked for me. He really enjoyed the prostate massaging and I was happy to do it, but fingers up my own bum was only ok....we tried toys which was also ok especially if they vibrated, as well as proper anal penetration which I didn't particularly enjoy.
Guy A was also most likely to try and initiate "group" things...no gang bangs or anything, but there was a time I gave both him and Guy C a blow job, each watching as I did the other, and the two of us also had a threesome which was awkward at the start, but we got into the swing of it and I really enjoyed it. Nothing crazy, it started out with me having sex with them in turn, and when the awkwardness abated they finally spit-roasted me (which is what I was wanting to try), occasionally swapping ends, and the session ended up lasting many hours. I'd contemplated trying double-penetration, but didn't suggest it which I now regret, it was the only threesome I've ever had.
Guy B: He was my second favourite mainly because he was black and I found that very exotic at the time and considered myself incredibly bohemian, a woman of the world willing to pleasure any and all. Things were not very varied, mainly me sucking him off, andor doggy style. He liked it quite rough and liked to be vocal and liked me to me vocal too, and looking back I shudder to think what others in the neighbouring rooms must have thought. He was fine initiating me doing oral on him, but otherwise I had to initiate most of the sex, including anal one time but again it wasn't something I particularly enjoyed....I just wanted a black cock in my ass, there's nothing wrong with that :)
Guy C: Probably the most selfish so we didn't have that much sex. He was very oral orientated and for a while every time we met I gave him a blow job at least, but I don't think he ever once went down on me, so I stopped giving him so much oral. We did have vaginal sex though, more-so when I started rationing the blow-jobs, and he was the only one where anal was regular-ish, usually just for a little bit as part of a wider sex session, but sometimes for full proper sessions, beginning to end, and I discovered that of the various positions we tried for anal, me on top was probably the most manageable for me, sometimes even pleasurable, and me on top reverse cowgirl was one of his favourites too, he often came quicker in that position.
Guy D: Not much to say about Guy D, we had sex the least probably because we found ourselves in a one-on-one the least. He was the only one with a "small" penis which didn't bother me with oral, but I can't deny it did make vaginal sex less pleasurable and there were some positions it just didn't seem to work at all for either of us, so when we did it it was usually doggy. I had sex with him when asked, but never bothered initiating myself.
Girl A and B: I knew they were having sex with the other guys too, but they rarely went into details, and I kept some things back myself. One night we gave and received oral among ourselves which I didn't mind doing, it was good fun and drove the guys wild when we told them.
I always swallow which is something I just thought you did, I didn't know some girls would spit or not take it in their mouth at all. There were days I would have some form of sexual contact with more than one guy at different parts of the day. Other than BC I didn't use protection which, obviously, looking back on it was crazy but I was young and dumb, I liked the spontaneity, I liked guys cumming inside me, it made me feel good, it made me feel sexy and wanted. Also I kept things in that group, I wasn't having one-night-stands at the weekend etc.
Having known more women I think my past sexual experiences are maybe more than most, but nothing too crazy I don't think, and while my husband would probably be horrified if he knew the extent of the activity (he knows I slept with four guys at uni, he just doesn't know it lasted years and I was sleeping with them at the same time, I haven't told him I've also eaten two pussies), I think he has benefitted from it as I've learned a lot, honed my skills, I know what I want and what I like, and when he has a hankering to get a little bit naughty I know to do reverse cowgirl :)
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