I Don't Believe This Is Actually Cheating

I'm a married female in my 30s and enjoy sex immensely, a few months ago a male coworker and myself started masturbating together we only touch ourselves and not each other's dick or pussy. Its very enjoyable to watch him jerk off as I rub and finger my self I have very nice orgasms like this and it turns me on to watch him cum all over his stomach, this is all we do a few times a week and are satisfied with no actual sexual contact do you think this is actually cheating? Would love to hear your reply's

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 13, 2022 at 6:12 PM

I would wonder first what you are missing from your sex life with your hubby that made you turn to your co-worker and why you cant do this with your husband. I have had several work affairs and I can tell you they always end up bad. You aren't getting your sexual or emotional needs met at home. Your spouse doesnt find you sexy. Your co-worker is just fun and not the day to day pain your husband might occasionally be, the list goes on and on. Most of my affairs ended up, someone getting hurt, spouses finding out, co workers and bosses finding out, divorces, or getting fired. And those are just the ones I went through with, there are 3 or 4 others who made it clear they were open to sex. And I'm not Brad Pitt, just a guy who is in decent shape andmlistens to them talk about their problems. I wont say it wasn't fun at times, but I can tell you I don't think it was worth it. Good luck. And yes any activity where the person you are with has an orgasm, its sex, and you are cheating. Would you be ok if he did that with another woman?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 13, 2022 at 8:05 PM

I consider anything you have to hide from your spouse as cheating. I did shit near to this for a Lot of my marriage. She found out, worst year of my life and I’m sure hers too. She don’t know who I was and it took time for me to find me yea yea pity party on me boo hoo fuck that noise. I fucked up. Since then we have been closer and have had better sex and experimented far beyond my perverted fantasies. It’s only getting better. Do
You of course.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 13, 2022 at 11:23 PM

Since eating has been ruled as NOT CHEATING, by law, then mutual masturbating CAN'T be cheating. If it was, the ALL of the times I had sex with my men KNOWING peeping toms were watching while eagerly beating off would be threesomes

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 14, 2022 at 5:56 AM

Would your husband be shocked or surprised or disappointed if he was to walk in and found you rubbing your pussy with another man? My assumption is "yes"! If it's something that you are hiding from him, you are cheating!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 14, 2022 at 7:19 AM

Do you want love from this guy or just sexual excitement. That's what matters to me. Others can have their own views. Sex is sex, Love is Love, if you have Love and Sex in the right measure , you probably would be frigging yourself off in front of a Co worker. Anyway you will sucking him soon, and then he will fuck you. Then he will call you cheating slut and your pussy will be so wet, because you know that's just what you are a dirty cheating cook hungry little slut and you can wait to get your pussy out

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 14, 2022 at 9:40 AM

No love involved just fun and exciting I love my husband dearly

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 14, 2022 at 10:31 PM

Turn the tables for a moment. If your husband loves you dearly, would you be happy if he was doing what you're doing?

I learned the hard way that it doesn't matter what other people think, the only thing that matters is what your spouse thinks and if THEY think it's cheating, then it's cheating.

In my case, she's gone now (cancer) and I miss her dearly.

Sooner or later, you're going to find out what your husband thinks about it and you might not like his response.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 16, 2022 at 7:12 AM

It not cheating. Just enjoy your experience and orgasms. But maybe you should try some mutual touching because I think both of probably want that and enjoy it!

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