Question

Hi Everyone I only have a situation.

I am married and have a great wife. But something bothers me.

I have a brother in law that I do not like and my wife claims she does not like him either.

Her parents lives with us. We take care of them and its all fine love her parents great people we also get along great.

But her brother is not her real brother. Both of them where adopted. She is 5 years younger than him.

She told me stories when she was starting to grow breasts that he would grab her breasts. And when he has friends over he would grab her breasts and tell his friends look at how her breasts is growing.

One time she was swimming with him and a friend of his in a public pool. Her brother pulled off het bikini top in front of everyone.

And this made her mad. Some times when he had. Girl friend over he would take out his dick and swing it around in front of them.

This apparently made her mad.

But now we are married. He is also married. When they come to visit his parents he is just disgusting. Farts in front of everyone. Sits inappropriately with shorts on. Does what ever he likes.

I would confront my wife about his behaviour and she would agree but when she is so friendly with him and not even her parents has the guts to just tell him to think of others around. I would confront him from time to time but then everyone is mad at me. But what bothers me the most is that if we have other people over my wife would make sure that when its time for bed she is covered does not reveal het night wear. Wears long pants all that. But when her brother is hear with his wife. She would walk around in her sleeping shorts with no underwear and somewhat revealing shirt. By that I mean her nipples would protrude through her shirt or her slightly see through when in the right light. And her shorts revealing her butt a bit. How she would dress if it was just us. I have confronted her about it and she just apologised and said she was not thinking. Then it would change but eventually she would do it again. Also she makes sure that she makes him his food that he likes and friendly and all that.

Am I paranoid or would you also think more happened than she was telling me..

Please only serious comments.
And ps they grew up on a farm