I hate having sex with my husband because sex with him is so boring that I have to fantasize about other men I've been with (or have wanted to be with in the past) just to make it interesting for me.

He refuses to try anything new to make it interesting, despite what he says and thinks, and any input from me he says either, "that would freak me out," or a flat out "no." And these are what I consider mild things, like role play or dirty talk. But then he thinks a massage is something "new" or "interesting." His "dirty talk" is just him telling me what he's doing to me, which I obviously already know, so that's boring too. Mine scares him, even tho it's not that dirty!

I think if the opportunity would ever present himself, I'd probably cheat on him just to have interesting sex.