Always The Side Dish

I'm 45 and I'm still in an extramarital relationship with the man who was my boss. I fell for him when I was 22, became his office girl, later he set me up in a house and car, and now at 45 I have a love child with him and am still in this informal relationship. He turned 70, I spent the weekend helping put his party together, cohosting, our daughter is 19 and she took the party by storm.

I know he set up a trust fund for my daughter, and he has a large life insurance policy payable to me, I own my house outright, and I have significant savings, so financially I'm ok. But always the girlfriend never the wife.