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I Don't Know What To Think Anymore...

I am so frustrated about this guy, we started dated 5 months ago, and didn't make a move on me since, he told me that he liked me that he likes how I look but it seems that he doesn't want to move on to the next level, he didn't even kiss me, he is kinda shy and so am I, but I wish he was man enough to do something.
He is 34 and I am 28, and I know he likes me why else he would go out with me?
He says that he is my friend and I can count on him everytime I need but then he asks me if I want to marry in the future if I will find the right guy and if I want kids, and if he is too old for me but he is only 6 years older then me, I don't know exactly what  he wants with me, why he keeps looking for me, I like him too I wish I could sau him directly what are his feelings for me but I am scared, I don't know how to act anymore, I wish to be together with him not only be friends, what should I do?

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# 59426 - by Meghan / July 8, 2022
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 8, 2022 at 9:26 AM

It's pretty simple. Ask him if you two are just friends or would he like to be intimate with you as well. If he just wants your friendship then that's great. But then tell Jim you want more and would like it to be with him, but I'd he doesn't feel the same way you will have to go searching for someone who wants the same thing.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 8, 2022 at 1:26 PM

Short version: you need to find out which team he's playing for.

Long version: Vamp it up for him some night. Get him into your house or apartment, fix him a drink, excuse yourself and come back to him in the sluttiest, thinnest lingerie you own. If he's eyeing everything you have to offer and not groping you in joy, be very concerned. If he up and runs, it's time to start fishing for a mate elsewhere because you don't have the right bait for him, and he's been stringing you along for the sake of appearances.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 8, 2022 at 3:24 PM

Sometimes he gives me the impression that he is a virgin, he told me that he never was in a serious relationship before.He is very nerdy and his shyness turns me on.
Couple of times I was wearing a deep cleavage and he was staring at my breasts but didn't do anything.
I asked him to come to my place but he refused, I don't really know how ti seduce a man.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 9, 2022 at 5:15 AM

Just tell him what you want.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 9, 2022 at 7:42 AM

I am just so scared that I will push him away if I ask him directly this, I don't know how to ask him more subtle if he wants to be together with me or not.
-Meghan

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 10, 2022 at 1:31 PM

I am of a similar age to your friend, without much sexual experience and quite shy, I have been in a similar situation a couple of times and because of my shyness I have lost, as I said, a couple of great opportunities.of being with women that I liked and I began to feel something deep for them.They, like you, waited for me to start the game of infatuation and seduction but I couldn't, despite the insinuations they made me but that I didn't know how to grasp or was afraid to accept.
I would have liked to be brave and tell them what I felt for them but I didn't, they got tired of waiting and have partners who did know how to express what I couldn't and was unable to do it.
How I would have liked to go back in time and we took advantage of opportunities to have been with them (at different stages of my life, obviously) and to have started a couple of love stories that always would be lost in my memory.
They say that the worst thing in life is not doing the things you could have done and they are very right.
The regret and pain subside but are always there, intact to remind you of what you should have but couldn't do.
My only advice to you is that if he is not able to do it, you should express your feelings towards him, and even if they are not reciprocated, you will have the peace of mind and the certainty that you were brave. for following your heart and soul.
When time passes, you will be happy that you have been true to yourself for trying something beautiful with another person.
I send you a heartfelt hug from a distance and be happy, without regret or cowardice, that harms the health of each person.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 11, 2022 at 7:26 AM

Yes, I get it some men are really shy and sometimes it's very hard for them to express their feelling and say that they like a girl and want to be with her more then friends but sometimes you have to man up and say what you really want, stop being a coward I'm just sick of that type of guys.
So I went out with this guy last week and since then not even a text to see how am I doing, am I dead or alive, what is wrong with people like that?
He said that he is my friend and always be there for me whenever I need him,apparently big lie...
I'm just so icredible naive for believing him.
-Meghan

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