Look, it was a one-time thing, right? You love your man? Then there's no need to tell him. If you're planning to make it a regular thing, or you decided that your hubby isn't what you want, tell him and give him the choice to leave.
That's where I screwed up - I loved him but didn't stop. I made it a regular thing, going out and getting laid. When he found out, he blew his top and walked out. I should have either stopped or told him right away. I still regret losing him, and I've even stopped sleeping around because it's too heartbreaking.
My husband suspected I was screwing around on him so he followed me around. Because I was stupid and was paying for the room with our credit card he was able to get a key card and walk in on me and my lover.
He grabbed my clothes off of the chair where I had put them and took them with him while calling me a whore.
I was busted. I could not talk my way out of it. He kicked me out of the house that day.
Now I try to get laid and get as far as right before penetration and I feel the weight of being called a whore again and I just stop. I have not gotten laid since that day three years ago.
I am worried about my sister. She is a real party girl and might let it slip. She goes to these parties all the time and once she did a GB at one of them in front of a crowd. She lives close to us and is in and out all the time. I don't know what to do about her. Plus, I really had a good time doing it. I just wonder if my hubby would become a swinger. I can see it would be easy for me to get into it. I can also see why my sister lives the lifestyle. Guess I will have to think about whether or not to tell him and take a chance he will be on board.
Find out if he would be interested... ABSOLUTELY. My wife and I do that sort of thing all the time. Our sex life has never been hotter.
you want to know how to get him into it? have your sister seduce him first. better yet, have a threesome with him and your sister. I guarantee after that he'll be into all of it. If not, divorce him and marry me. I'll play with you and your sister and share you with my friends, plus take you sightseeing around europe. ;)
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I had at a friend's hot, blonde, sexy, but dumb as fuck gf while he did three months in county and she had a huge, full-weekend party at their townhouse. I knew she'd be easy to fuck, and two other guys found out the same thing. We all knew each other and joked "So, Dan doesn't find out about this, right?", as we all, separately, fucked her silly. She really was beautiful, tall and lanky-sexy, had a great body, and it didn't take much to get her, especially once he was in county. Turns out, I was gone one weekend helping move a friend's kid across state, and she had another party, this time letting two other guys trade her off. All while her so-called honey Dan was doing time.
After they broke up, I met up with her for mid-day drinks, and her long, red-nailed fingers found their way to my leg and crotch. She remembered the parties, telling me she was drunk, but knew we were good when we had sex, so, let's do it again. We did, for months before she moved.
