I Suspected My Dad Was Not My Bio Dad, And My Parents Admitted It

This isn't my confession, but the confession my parents made to me about a week ago.


I have an aunt who lives across the country. We never see her much because she's so hard to get along with. I never really liked her but I always tried to be nice to her. She called me about ten days ago to chat, I don't know why. During the conversation, I said something about politics she disagreed with, and she flipped out and got really nasty. She told me my dad wasn't my biological dad. She said my parents had been into all kinds of things before I was born like SM and cuckolding. She told me I was conceived during a gangbang while my parents were in South Korea. She actually said it like that. I hung up on her.


It took a few days to process it, but I always knew subconsciously anyway. As I grew up, I began to look a little different from my parents and my two younger siblings. Not so much in terms of skin tone or other features, but my eyes look slightly Asian (both of my parents are Caucasian).


I confronted my parents, and though they clarified a lot of things, they basically admitted what my aunt said was true. They apologized profusely for not telling me, but they said they'd never apologize for anything else, because they don't regret anything they did. My dad said, "If you'd been my bio child, I'd have another daughter or a son, but not you. I'd have never known you. The unique child that is you would never have existed. How can I be sorry that you exist?"


Of course hearing that made me feel great. And I can't be angry with them. They've both been wonderful parents. They doted on all of us, lived for us, and despite my suspicions about how I was conceived, I was never treated with less attention or love than my siblings. So I've got nothing to complain about. I guess it's just thinking about the stuff they were into. Hard to imagine your parents in that scene. But I love them and they love me, and that's all that matters.

Comments

Capnron648

by Capnron648 on Jul 27, 2022 at 10:19 AM

More and more people who use "23 and Me" and other ancestry sites are shocked and surprised by the results that reveal skeletons in their family closets. LOL.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 27, 2022 at 12:51 PM

Sounds like your parents handled it about as well as any parent could. Yes, they should have told you sooner of your Asian heritage, but it's understandable why they didn't. Like you said, they love you and you love them. Don't judge them too harshly. A lot of bio dads aren't as good and wise as the father who raised you.

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logan2020

by logan2020 on Jul 27, 2022 at 1:16 PM

Great reply by #2 above. And at your current age, what your parents did sounds disgusting and perhaps obscene but in another 10 or so years, your perspectives can change. I've been shocked at how my feelings and interests have changed dramatically in the last 10 years.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 27, 2022 at 1:39 PM

Thanks for sharing your lovely story. You are loved.

It sucks that your aunt is such a sore loser. Debating politics brings out the evil in us and should be avoided among family and friends alike.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 27, 2022 at 5:36 PM

I think your aunt called intentions no matter what yall discussed she saw that as a good door opener Politics. You could have just ben talking about anything she was going to tell you to hurt you no matter how that's why she called you out of the blue while prob feeling alone bored bitter at home. She prob shocked and hates to hear the nice ending

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 28, 2022 at 9:57 AM

Isabella,

Has hearing the story of our conception piqued your interest in cuckolding an gangbangs? Do you get the urge sometimes to emphasize your more oriental features?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 28, 2022 at 12:24 PM

Honestly, I'm just starting to learn about the things my parents were into. I don't know how I feel yet. My fantasies and experiences so far have been pretty mild and common compared to that.

As for my features, it depends some on how I use make up. I've learned I can emphasize my features and I like the way that looks, or I can make it hard to detect that I'm biracial. I've been experimenting with different looks. I also want to learn more about Korean culture and history, and my parents are fine with that.

Isabella

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 28, 2022 at 1:08 PM

Sounds like your aunt's a liberal. In my experience your only allowed to have a good political opinion if it's the same opinion as a liberal. But politics aside, your dad is the man who raised you and made you the good person your are. He would give his life for yours. That fact speaks to and will tell you much more than DNA.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 30, 2022 at 7:52 AM

Your Aunt is clearly a toxic individual. Anyone that would do what she did is not someone you want in your life and should be cut out. Your parents sound like awesome people!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 31, 2022 at 8:21 PM

Cuckold pregnancies seems to be a thing. My friend (who I met through swingers lifestyle) have a child from group sex and I've been discussing with lots of people who are experiencing this lifestyle and who are having a child from someone outside of their family. During twenty years when I've been using internet, people have really opened up. Back in the day, nobody dare to tell these things, but now it is odd if there's no mention about it or plans to let it happen. It hasn't become more common, but internet anonymity have been helpful for people to talk about these things and also tell past experiences.

You are not alone with this.

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