Real Dominant Men

It's no use saying "I want you to be aggressive. I like to be dominated."

I mean, it could work, but most likely he won't really be like that. He'll just think that he can be and because you've asked, he'll do it. Most likely it will be shit. He'll hit you with a load of cliched lines he's seen in porn and you'll just want to laugh or, like has happened to me a few times, he'll do something a bit rough or aggressive then lean in and say "Is that ok? I mean, you'll tell me if it isn't won't you?"
Total buzz kill.
Either that or they'll just try to hurt you. Fuck off, you psycho, that's not it.

Recently i met a guy who fucks me semi-regularly. I'd texted out of the blue and he said he'd had a few drinks but i should come over. Sex with him has always been very, very good but he has never really dominated me. Turns out all he needed was two large glasses of red inside him.

I knew something was different almost straight away. He's always liked me to gag on his cock, and when I do it's like my gag reflex is the on switch to my boner. Every time I gag on his lovely dick, mine stiffens. I love it. Usually, when i gag he pulls it out a bit then lets me go down again in my own time. Not tonight though. As I gagged he would pull me in more or thrust it in further to face fuck me. At the points where i literally had to have air he wouldn't resist as I pulled away, but instead of waiting he would almost immediately throat fuck me or pull my head down right to his hinge. I was retching ,with my throat constricting round his dick and he was loving it, being much more vocal than usual. I was gasping for air, my eyes streaming, and thick saliva gushing from me, down his cock and onto the bed almost like a running tap. There was a slick puddle of it on the bed sheet.

He manhandled me into position for fucking and, something new again, pushed my face roughly into the mattress growling "Get that fucking arse up in the air". That was me. Face pushed down into a puddle of my own, slick, cocksucker slime. Trying to push my hole up to greet him. There were none of the usual preliminary exploratory pushes this time. He just shoved his hard, slippery snake of a cock straight in all the way as i winced and cried out with my face held down on the wet mattress, now by his bare foot.
Crying out didn't buy me any respite and he immediately started to slam fuck me really hard. I tried to push back into it as best I could as he continued to fuck it like he was trying to break it, his teeth gritted and sweat breaking out on his forehead and shoulders. He fucked me for much longer than usual. Maybe that was the alcohol or maybe it wasn't the first cum of the day. It was fucking heaven for me though. At one point he reached round to grab my rock hard little dick and as soon as he touched it I erupted with an almighty powerful orgasm as his dominant cock assaulted my prostate. He carried on fucking and my legs were now shaking involuntarily. Eventually he pulled out and spun me round. He paused to slap my face a couple of times with his big, wet cock and then with both hands on the back of my head pulled me right down until my nose was squashed painfully against his pubic bone. he fucked my throat, cried out and then held me in place, his whole body jerking as he made me take his full, hot, salty load in my mouth and throat. As he pulled out he rubbed it in my face to wipe it.
We sat back and looked at each other and then both of us pissed ourselves laughing. It had never been like that before.
"Sorry about that" he said "I can be a bit more aggressive when I've had a drink"
"You should have told me before" I replied "I'd have turned up with a bottle of wine"

That's set the tone for us now. The next time we arranged to meet i was careful to suggest he might want to have a couple of drinks first so he knew I'd meant it.