Moving On Up
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Don't blame you a bit. I took advantage of those opportunities when they came along. I couldn't wait around until promotions were fair and honest.
Any disadvantages life throws your way as a female.... are offset by all the advantages you gain from being born a female. Don't whine. Don't make weak excuses.
Just be honest that you'd rather take the easy way that compromises your integrity than fight for a promotion on a level playing field with everyone else. It's your choice so own it. Own it with brutal honesty to yourself.
Now.... will you be able to own it in the mirror 5 years from now? 10 years? 20? Will you lie to your future spouse about it knowing that relationships built on lies are flawed from the start?
You're being very naive and are probably being played. Sounds like a girl I knew in Jr. High. We told her that swallowing cum would make her boobs grow, and she bought it ! The more she developed, the more she choked and gagged, but never stopped sucking our cocks.
OK, so there's pros and cons to everything and you've seen comments from both camps.
I'm encouraging you to use the assets at your disposal and get your life in gear.
You say you fancy him anyway and you have no illusions of "love and marriage" but would enjoy a shag and the benefits that will be yours. Go for it and take what you can get and hang on with both hands.
That jazz about looking in the mirror? Yes, look in the mirror in 5 years and be grateful that you have lifted yourself out of the clamoring throng and smile! You go girl!
I say "go for it"! What do you have to lose? Even if it's BS, you get a night of sex to look back on. If it's true, you move your life along and start living a better life.
All the talk about looking in the mirror in nonsense. You're not an 18 year old, spreading her legs to get promoted at a fast food chain. You're a mature woman setting herself up for a hopefully, prosperous future!