I hear ya man. And the next day when I tell her what we did etc etc she just looks at me and laughs.
Yeah, I get the feeling that she isn't really as out of it as she seems, she just likes being taken control of.
I'm just not 100% sure but once in awhile she will wake up, and even the mornings after those times she will claim not to remember. Strange thing was the day she woke up totally in the mood for it while I still wanted to sleep after being up late playing around. She made some comment about how long it had been since we had sex when in reality it was just a few hrs ago. I was thinking of showing her the digital photos I took one night.
This is my favorite fantasy with my husband. Sometimes I get "loaded" right before he gets home and stick in the vibrator on high. It looks like I passed out jilling off. LOL! He comes in and pretends to scold me fore being a drunken slut. Then he finishes me off my fucking me with the vibrator while he comes in my mouth. I love it!