Vasectomy Time

Last night after having sex my wife said I should be getting a vasectomy soon. Kinda came as a shock to me so I asked why. She said that we’ve had 3 kids now so it’s my turn to do something and that’s a vasectomy

Now she knows my stance on vasectomies. She know for years that I would not get one. I know a few guys who still got post vasectomy pain and I told her I’d never get one. My dad still has pain from when he got his years ago. Not to mention my balls already hurt from a varicocele and an injury from my 20s.

I told my wife why didn’t you get fixed after our last child? She said because I figured you would.

Now we’re in a dilemma. She’s still on birth control which she wants to stop and I’ve told her I’m okay using condoms. But she wants me to go get snipped which she knows I’m uncomfortable doing. This is our first major disagreement or fight actually.

I’ve recently suggested she get off the pill and get an implant birth control which she was actually open to doing. I’ve yet to suggest she get her tubes tied. Currently my wife is a stay at home mom so it makes more sense for her to get fixed instead of me sitting at home with sore balls for a few days when I should be working.