Family Halloween Party.

This is less a confession & more a dilemma I'm having & want all your options!

My family puts on a yearly adults only costume party & I'm debating, should i use this opportunity to come out to them by fully dressing as my alter ego Kimber? Or do I play it more off as a joke & come dressed as Dr. Frank-N-Furter the character from the movie Rocky Horror Picture Show, just to get them talking first & then slowly come out to them at a later time?


A little background about me.... I've been crossdressing on & off since I was a teenager. None of my family members know about this side of me except my brother (he caught me) & I'm really wanting to just come out becoming a full time CD. My brother is trying to talk me out of fully coming out, because my family is pretty straight laced & doesn't think most would be as accepting as he was & doesn't want to see me hurt.

What do you all think?