What Should I Do?

I've been married and loyal for 30 years.
Sex with my husband has always been satisfying if not exactly spectacular but for over a year now he has been having erectile problems. I've tried all sorts of things to get him hard. I've watched porn with him, we've tried sex outdoors and in exciting places, I've tried role play, him dominating me, me dominating him, dirty talk, toys, lots of oral. I can get him hard, but to then get him inside my pussy before he goes soft is almost impossible. The only way he seems to maintain an erection to complete ejaculation is either through me blowing him or him masturbating himself to orgasm. He always goes down on me and gives me several orgasms that way so I should be happy, but I'm not.
I want to feel his cock inside me, or someone else's cock inside me.
I am honestly thinking of cheating on him, so desperate am I for a hard cock that I can orgasm on.
I know that I wouldn't have any trouble finding someone. I am not bad to look at. Still have blonde hair without any grey coming through, still slim, my figure is still the same as it was 20 years ago thanks to a healthy diet and yoga. So yes, I am flexible lol.
Since guys are often fascinated by breasts, I should mention that I am a DD cup.
IF I did cheat on him, it would ideally be with a much younger guy, who has stamina and who is well endowed.
I don't know what to do.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 13, 2022 at 5:46 PM

Have your husband exercise with you. Encourage him to do some running and possibly lifting some weights. This will help. If you still contemplate stepping out, first discuss with him. It is better then sneaking behind his back.

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SloHand

by SloHand on Sep 13, 2022 at 5:47 PM

Talk to him. See if he would be willing to have a hotwife. Maybe he would be interested in watching or joining in.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 13, 2022 at 6:44 PM

Go ahead and cheat on him! Its thrilling and may even help w8th your sex life with your husband

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 13, 2022 at 7:05 PM

I have noticed a lot of ab workout seems to help hardness and keeping it up. You could also use a strapon or penis cover type strap on. Try everything you can nefore cheating on him. Lots of people will say its no big deal, but it is. Get yourself off so you arent horny, then ask yourself, do I really want to cheat or do I just feel that way when Im horny so you make a rational decision.

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Seagull57

by Seagull57 on Sep 13, 2022 at 7:20 PM

Your husband understands your wanting more from him; and it tears him up inside, knowing that he is disappointing you. It's demoralizing for him. Not being able to please you break his heart. Has he tried ED medications? Since they have gone to public domain, the prices are reasonable. Talk with him, include him in your exercise, try to keep him feeling sexy and sexual. Part of him blames himself and wonders if you are or should be cheating; because he knows that he is failing you. Sadly, I have too much insight, here.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 13, 2022 at 7:58 PM

That doesn't seem to be ED. It may be a psychological issue he is experiencing.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 13, 2022 at 9:12 PM

Tell him to get his T levels checked

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 13, 2022 at 9:46 PM

it sounds like you've already decided to cheat. Your body is telling you to do it, and your husband can't complain since he can't get it up. Lots of young doms out there willing to pump your fertile womb. don't miss out!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 14, 2022 at 12:54 AM

He might like Anal sex, have you tried offering him your ass. But don't give up on him he needs you

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 14, 2022 at 3:17 AM

How about talking to him and telling him what’s on your mind. Been with my wife for 42 years. About 10 years ago had a diabetic coma. It came out of no where. Doctor visits twice a year blood work twice a year nothing then one day bang was in a coma for 7 days and got nerve damage. I don’t get fully hard no more do orgasm. I encouraged my wife to take on a lover. At first she was totally against it. She went out for drinks and a younger guy hit on her she ended up at his place as she called it a hard hot fucking. Since then came out to her I a.m bisexual and we had a bunch of 3 ways. I so enjoy watching her having sex and crying out in pleasure. Plus I enjoy clean up duties to. She sucks me all the time even thou I don’t get fully hard she gives me intense orgasms

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 14, 2022 at 2:10 PM

He probably has a foot fetish like my husband and is afraid to tell you. Wear stockings to bed and tease his cock with your stocking covered feet.
He may have a different fetish. Figure it out.
Once I got him to admit he had it and I incorporated it into our play his erection stayed like a piece of steel inside me and does every time.

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