You lose your virginity the first time you have sex, with or without a condom. Some people even consider oral sex losing your virginity as well... in that case im not a virgin even though ive never had sex, its pretty fucked up
oh...thank you soooo much! i've been confuses about that for along time........so thanks
Not to sound mean but that was a really stupid question. What does a condom have to do with losing your virginity? If you have sex....it's sex - condom or no condom. How old are you honey? If you have actual intercourse, that's losing your virginity. Using or not using a condom has nothing what-so-ever to do with it. When you do have sex though, you should use a condom - you don't know what people have these days and you wouldn't want to risk the chance of getting pregnant along with any STD's. If you do use a condom, your virginity will still have been lost so don't sweat it. If you have more questions, just ask...I'll try to help you out. I'm 27 and lost my virginity when I was 15...with a condom!!!!