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for all the talk about so many people having anal sex....I think its just that....Talk. I really love anal play, but (no pun intended) no one I've dated has any interest in it. I am an average looking woman,,,nothing to sneeze at,,,with a nice butt (that I like to show off), so why cant someone live up to all the talk and "facination" about anal sex?. Is it all just talk? For the experienced people into anal: is it just that I need to hang out in different circles, or is it just that its difficult to find a willing partner? Please help

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# 6072 - by Anonymous / April 8, 2004
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 9, 2004 at 6:08 PM

My wife loves anal sex too,and I give it to her all the time. It took awhile for her to bring it up,but once she did,we went at it hot and heavy. I think it's up to the female to bring it up. I would say most guys would love to help you out if they knew for sure you wanted it. Actually,you could sort of steer them in the right direction if you know what I mean. It's probably not a first date kind of thing though. My wife gave me a sexy card and told me straight out and i quote " I want you to fuck me in the ass". Now,when she wants it,she struts around the house in some slinky little thing and slaps her ass. I swear this little gal has got all the moves. She figured out early on that for men it's a visual thing and she uses it to her full advantage. We've been going strong now for 18 years and it just keeps getting better. Wish you all the luck.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 10, 2004 at 10:29 AM

Of all the women I've known in my life - lovers and friends, not one of them would ever want anal sex. I think alot of what we read is fantasies, and nothing else.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 10, 2004 at 6:38 PM

i heard that it feels really good and gives you quick orgasms... and i could understand that because the times I've masturbated with something in my ass I've come very quickly, its just that I would be embarrassed too to ask a boyfriend or husband to do me up the ass

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 10, 2004 at 9:13 PM

it is great with another person who knows how to do it, I did date someone that enjoyed anal sex, and he was good at it. But the relationship didnt last. Anyway, I have to disagree with "quickness" of an orgasm when playing/inserting things in the ass,,,I have lengthened the ecstacy as long as I wanted it (one long slow build up) or came several times in a short period of time. Experimentation is the key...lol. I wish I could find someone soon.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 10, 2004 at 9:17 PM

You have a LUCKY wife! Thats great that you two are still going strong after so many years together. thanks for responding to my post,,,I posted out of frustration, believe me.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 11, 2004 at 8:26 AM

Look, if you are in fact sincere about this and are in fact a woman, I'm a willing partner. I would love do experiment in that area, but no one I have been with wants to do it. I love a woman with a great ass, and I'm a very good student if someone teaches me right. If you are a real person reply back and let me know.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 11, 2004 at 5:14 PM

thank you for that generous offer..but no thank you, I'm not stupid. Good luck though on your search for an anal partner, really. I would Love to introduce it to a virgin like yourself, but that will be only after I've known the person for awhile. It wont be from someone online. Sorry.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 13, 2004 at 1:31 PM

During foreplay with my wife, I gently started rubbing her asshole with my finger and slowly started to insert it. She tightened right up, slapped my hand and asked me what the hell I was doing. I told her I heard some women enjoyed that, and she told me I heard wrong!!!!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 14, 2004 at 7:33 AM

SOME women do, just not ALL women. I happen to like it, but even so, the circumstances have to be just about perfect before I allow my husband to fuck me in the arse.

If you're looking to initiate anal, I suggest viewing some anal porn with your partner first. Don't pick an all anal film or cue right up to that act. Rather watch the whole film and she how your partner reacts. If he or she seems shocked or grossed out, back off. If they seem okay with it, then start making love. At an opportune time, say "You know what really made me hot...when he gave it to her up the arse." See how your partner reacts. If they are grossed out, back off. If not, try a finger down there. (BTW, most people who say they want to try anal, chicken out after the finger. If you can't stand a pinky you will never be able to take an erect cock.)One finger, two fingers, 3 fingers, cock. Go slow, use the whole tube of lube and listen to what both partners (male & female) are saying.

One bit of information: Anal sex can hurt the guy's cock as much as the girl's arse. The first time, my then-boyfriend (now husband) and I did it, he had a bruised cock the next day. Turns out, I have a very tight arsehole.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 21, 2004 at 9:20 PM

If you inserted your finger...even after rubbing around the asshole, you Still Need Lubricant! No wonder your wife slapped you....besides, there has to be more communication about anal play before you even attempt it. You Can also use your partners moans/squirms of pleasure, or their tightening and refusal to let you know if someone is receptive or not. I personally am thrilled when my partner goes down there,,,but it takes time and patience.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 21, 2004 at 9:21 PM

I agree....you go girl!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 22, 2004 at 4:47 PM

She is SO TOTALLY WRONG. My GF loves it; I can take it or leave it; no big deal anymore but was exciting the first time or two. Maybe her thing is wet sex.

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