Professional Wife

My wife and I became a couple in college.we both majored in marketing and had several classes together. We were each other’s first sex experience. After a few months we found out we we’re pregnant. We get married have our first daughter. I have graduated and started my job. My spouse try’s to be a stay at home mom. Not intentional we had our second child 18 months later. I get a vasectomy so no more children. After six years she tells me she wants to finish college and start working. Family help this processes well.
I work with a company selling medical supplies. For a few years I travelled overnight on occasions. I would entertain clients as part of the job. I realized how easy it is to have an extramarital fling on overnight trips. I never cheated but came so close many times. I have since ranked up and work out of the home branch office and seldom travel. This allows me to be an active father and husband.
My wife ended up getting a master degree when finishing college. She got a job selling food products to large restaurant companies. Assistant to a older ladies for a few years then branch out to getting an assistant lady for herself. She gets commission checks quarterly which is more than I make all year.
My wife knows a woman’s best tool for sales is physical demeanor. She works out daily. Wears expensive clothes. Uses makeup well. She surprised me one day and asked my permission for small breast implants to get former breast feeding breast lifted up which I agreed. Her breast stand up now without the big implanted breast look.
My wife travels almost weekly for sale meetings and is home for long weekends. We are into our family life and she has never not shown lack of love and compassion for me. Then one day I found a box of condoms hidden in the back of a seldom used drawer in here dresser. Half of the box was gone. I struggled with this that week. When I talked to her every night on the phone I did a lot of sexing that week. I planned a Saturday night with children with grandparents so we could discuss the situation.
In the restaurant I shared I know what it is like traveling for work like she does. I know she is above successful with sales results because of the pay she receives. She has never put us as a mother and wife secondary to her job energy. I told her I found the condom box. My wife teared up. I asked her to please not cry and reached and held her hands. She finally calmed down and asked could we wait until after we eat to further discuss which I agreed. On the trip home I shared it wasn’t about the money but I had become aroused by the thought of her having sex with others. I shared I had come closed to cheating several times when I traveled. I shared I have concerns about her getting pregnant being I had been clipped. She said she used condoms at first now has an IUD but is having problems with it. After discussion we decided for her to get tube’s tied privately so any family or friends wouldn’t question why both had to get clipped.
I requested totally honesty going forward. Getting the IUD without me knowing is like cheating. I discussed concerns for sexual partners. She said if she has sex with a client she always request a condom. She shared she most likely has sex a older male boss anytime he goes on a trip. She said losing me isn’t an option and she will have us live poor before we lose what we have as a family and she could quit her job any time either of us wanted. My wife did share she wouldn’t respect me having flings because she uses sex appeal for her job, not personal lust.
I take advantage of the honesty agreement and have her tell me about her trip away when traveling home from airport. She sometimes shares many details, and sometimes shares no sex on trip that week. We talk on the phone every night during her time away. She shared that many times her male boss is going down on her while she talks with me. One time before a week trip she shared that the client on this trip is hung like a horse, she didn’t like sex with him. When I picked her up at airport she during the long hug she said she was so sore she can hardly walk. Another return trip when in the car she unbuttoned her jacket and show me a big hickie on each breast.
She realizes she is getting to an age that active sex is slowing down. She said she she would retire before she lets work sex interferes with her marriage sex. I almost feel the opposite. She has recently asked to train for a position in her home office that would require no travel or sale pitches but would lose her commission check which is based on sales. Her male boss doesn’t want her to change jobs. My wife is ready to slow down to be with her teen children their last years at home. We will see how things evolves as life goes on.