I'm still young. Just fifteen years old. I've been with a guy for a long time and we've begun exploring our "sexual side". I enjoy it and he's told me that he enjoys it also. He wants more. Doing so, I've lost a friend whose against this. I decided to stop all this exploring for my friend. All the 'exploring' felt reallllly gooOoOoOod, but my friends mean a lot to me. If they don't agree, I will stop. Me and the guy i'm with had about 3 or 4 times together and i've enjoyed it. A little practice here and there is a nice. My friend doesn't act the same around me anymore. He's lost respect of me. That hurt a lot because he was a great friend. I want to continue with this guy. a little touching here, licking there, sucking and whatever we can think of, but no intercourse yet. My friend has already lost respect of me even though i'm stopping for him. I might as well continue with my exploring, but i'm afraid of STDs, AIDs, and especially pregnancy when i'm not ready. What do you guys think? Save sex until i'm ready and with the man I love or enjoy my teenage years and keep going?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 6, 2004 at 2:56 AM

Do what you feel is right for you. You cant let so called friends live your life for you, this "friend" of yours sounds like a control freak. Only you can judge what is right for you, just be careful and to avoid unwnated pregnancies or STDs. So be your own person, make your own decisions.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 6, 2004 at 11:30 AM

Ultimitely, it is your choice, but fifteen is pretty young. As a guy, I can tell you that I didn't have intercourse until I was almost 18 and I did do it with a girl I was very much in love with. You don't have to have intercourse to enjoy your sexual side. Just think about that, okay? And good luck.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 11, 2004 at 6:52 PM

For a fifteen year old, you display a lot of wisdom. Always remember, you have one life, enjoy it. But don't risk your future by getting pregnate or with an STD. Sex is great, but it's not the only thing. I think you understand this. You are a very smart girl.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 14, 2012 at 3:51 PM

I say, you're ready for sex when you're ready for the consequences. Can you make a good decision about the baby? Can you receive treatment if you contract a disease? Will you be able to finish high school and go to college? Will this boy respect you after the deed? If the answer to ANY of those questions is no, then wait.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 16, 2017 at 10:29 PM

Keep going. If it feels good, do it!!!

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