Get yourself to a gym and concentrate on YOU for at least six months. Don't even think about getting with someone. Exercise hard and trust me after six months you'll be surprised by just how many guys are interested. I know because that's what I did. And I'm still enjoying the gym and men.
You need to learn to be happy in yourself. Look at your interests and find people who share those, expand your friends
People will love you for who you are and when you find someone they will be the right person
Best to try Biker Bars and pull a train. They'd welcome you with open arms.
I am heavy, thick, Latina with a semi pretty face. I have never had a hard time getting laid, not in the seventh grade (first time) and not now (age 44). It's your attitude, you have to exude sexual desire. Don't judge the guy, and he won't judge you. You let him know with your eyes you will suck his dick, do as you are told and spread your legs for him. Men do NOT like pushy women or women who have an attitude.
