my first time didnt hurt
Get one of those large rubber penis dildos and work-it yourself for awhile till your pussy learns what its all about.
No don't get a dildo.
Let your first time be more than a rubber toy.
Do it for love, not for plesure. I'm not saying you have to wait untill you get married. I just hate seeing girls lose it to some ass hole.
I don't know about the hurting, I'm a guy.
If you do it with a youngin, by that I mean a guy under 30ish; it will probably be over in a couple minutes AT MOST, as they tend to cum VERY FAST; typically WAY before the female,(who is then left frustrated) so it shouldn't hurt very long. As girls mature and blossum into womanhood I believe most of us find "the act" is MUCH MORE satisfying when performed with guys in the 40 to 60 age bracket simply because they have developed (for what ever the reason) the nack of holding off their orgasum until the lady has had at least 3-5 of her own. The rubber toy is a great idea; playing and learning about ones self, in my book, does not really "qualify" as loosing your virginity.
well it all depends on the man that you are with. I know my first time did not hurt at all, and it was because he is a complete gentleman, and went very slow for me. so yes you can enjoy it, just tell them it is your first, and ask them to go slow for you, and if they don't the pain is very mild, and will go away very shortly after