Communication is key in a relationship and if it's something you need and she won't listen and discuss it then don't cheat, cheating does not help anyone. Move on and be happy.
The old mindset of how a relationship should be is exactly old. Society and other people that are not important to you should not be the deciding factor in your happiness.
Be who you want and need to be,
The fact you mention you won't chest means it has been s thought before now. It will hurt you both. In long run the pain of accepting your not right for each is better than living with being cause of pain.
I'm in the same boat, man- I'm married and love my wife, but I really, really wish I was able to hook up with men again. Or even just one guy that I could get together with every so often..
I'm bi and I've known I was bi years before her and I started dating. When I was single, I told myself I had better try experimenting with men before I got into a serious relationship ( I knew I was attracted to men, but wasn't sure to what extent). The first time I was with a guy, I knew I was into it, and I quickly became super comfortable with what I liked doing with men.
When my wife and I got together, she asked me if I was bi. Embarrassed and not knowing her views on the LGBT community, I lied and told her no. A few years later, I admitted I was, but told her I hadn't been with anyone else during our relationship. I love her and all, but man, I really need some dick.
