Husband Wants To Watch Me

My husband has had a fantasy for many years of watching me with other men. I enjoyed him telling me his fantasies while we fucked or while I masturbated and I figured it was just a fun fantasy to liven things up. He never hinted he wanted to actually see me with another man until this past week.

After dinner we came home and He confessed to me that he wanted to see me with another man. I thought it was still just a fantasy to him but he said he has thought about it a lot and would like to try it for real.

We are going to New Orleans in November for a few days and he said that would be the perfect opportunity away from home with a stranger we would never see again. I told him I wasn’t sure and am super nervous about it. He told me he could find a guy who gives an erotic massage to take it slow as I wanted and if I’m not vibing with him no pressure.

I admit it all sounds good and I have thought about it a lot. I’m turned on by it but worried it will change our relationship forever.

Do you think I should go through with my husbands request and have a guy give me an erotic massage while he watches and see where it goes? I’m also worried my husband will get jealous when he actually sees me having sex with another man. Thanks for the advice

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# 61555 - by Sarah / October 27, 2022

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by Anonymous on Oct 27, 2022 at 7:51 PM

Hi Sarah. This will definitely change your relationship. However, it is highly possible that this could be the start of a cuckhold situation. This is not a bad thing if you both are open to it. He obviously has thought about this enough to actually ask you to do it.

The questions are:
1. Are you truly open to it?
2. How far, in a general sense, do you feel you could take it?
3. Have you fantasized about sleeping with other men and desired it in person?
4. Will you feel weird about having your husband sit there while you give pleasure or receive pleasure from another man or men?

I hope it works out either way.

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by Anonymous on Oct 27, 2022 at 8:29 PM

1. Yes I am open to it and think about it a lot and fantasize about other men a lot.

2. If he does find a guy to give me a sensual massage and I get really turned on I can definitely see me going all the way with the man who is massaging me. My husband loves to give me rub downs and I’m always super wet and ready to go after so I see this situation being even more erotic for me.

3. Yes I have and my hisband encourages the fantasies. I have desired it in person as well but never gone through with anything.

4. I don’t think I’d feel weird. I masturbate in front of my husband a lot and it’s fun for him to watch me cum. I feel like I’d feel the same way with another man giving me pleasure.

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by Anonymous on Oct 28, 2022 at 12:20 AM

I think that this is a fantasy that many husbands have, me included.
I also think that your husband is a very lucky guy because you are actually considering going through with it.
I have asked my wife several times to do the same...at her pace...her rules...can even be without me watching for the first time or two until she gets relaxed enough to have me there watching or perhaps joining in. BUT no matter what I say, no matter how many assurances I give her, no matter how tempted she is - and she is tempted and does fantasize about being with other men, particularly younger men - the answer is still a resounding no.
Good luck with it and I sincerely hope that you both get what you hope to get out of the relationship.

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by Anonymous on Oct 28, 2022 at 4:54 AM

My husband wanted to watch me fuck another man also he persisted for months finally I agreed to go out and get laid and bring him pics. He said that was a start and maybe more would happen later. I went to a bar in another town and started drinking after talking with a few guys I met a nice looking older man and we started talking eventually we got around to sex and I told him what my husband wanted and he agreed as long as his face didn't show well we got a room and started kissing and touching he was hard right away and I could feel my pussy getting soaked we undressed each other and I started sucking his dick while he took pics with my phone he then started eating me (no pics) then he put on a condum and entered me doggie style while taking pics while I rubbed my clitoris I had 2 orgasms the second was like a earthquake he then pulled out removed the condum and came on my face and in my mouth which I swallowed and licked up we cleaned up and left. I returned home and my husband was very excited he took my phone and was looking at the pics and was hard right away I started sucking him while he was eating me in the 69 position we then started fucking like wild animals he pounded me so hard I came when he came there was such a huge cumshot larger then he ever shot before! He then thanked me and we showered and went to sleep I finally did fuck another man with him watching and joining in but thats another story

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by Anonymous on Oct 28, 2022 at 5:50 AM

I was like your husband one time. My ex left me for an ex friend because there were problems in the relationship that never got fixed. Make sure your relationship doesn't have major issues before starting down this path, because the price of failure is exceptionally high emotionally and financially.

by RichardStands on Oct 29, 2022 at 10:16 PM

Sarah, never be afraid to explore new things sexually.
If it turns you on even a little, it will a lot more doing it.

A massage is nice for starters, but set some boundries with your husband.
If you want to be massaged and eventually end up getting fucked say so.

Tell your husband you want to go for it but you need his assurance he won't be jealous.
You can fuck him before, after, or during, whatever works to help him with this.

And he also needs to know that if you like it, it's not a one off thing either.
After all this is his idea.

It's your body, your pussy, and you should call the shots.
Be the woman you've always wanted to be.

If this is Sarah the nurse, you already have my email.
Tell me how things work out for you on this.
Best regards.

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by SloHand on Nov 1, 2022 at 4:19 AM

This can go two ways. The two of you can get very turned on and enjoy it or it can backfire.

Your husband could get jealous
You can become more attracted sexually to the other guy
Your husband might no longer satisfy you
Sex between you and your husband can be better than ever

This trip might be too soon. Both of you really need to talk if out a lot more and set some ground rules. It's real life, not a porn movie.

Best of luck to you and please share whatever you decide.

by AnthonyT59 on Nov 29, 2022 at 4:51 AM

My ex wife wanted the same thing but she wanted to watch ME do it not her. She knew I had an obsession for a good friend of ours and actually it made our sex life better after. She would ask me who I was fantasizing about every time we had sex from them on. Go for it

by Anonymous on Jan 23, 2023 at 7:14 PM

So what happened did you go thru with it? Did you enjoy yourself and your hubby?

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