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My Spouse
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Straight Female / 41
I Have A Work Husband
Many if not most workers are around others as much or more than with family. This is my situation. My husband and I both work at good jobs and have a secure situation financially. We got married after one year of college. Having 2 daughters in 4 years delayed my finishing school but I finally got a degree. After our second daughter we agreed to my tubal ligation because I wanted to be a professional more than a homemaker. My husband is great looking but enjoys the girls and homemaking so I have it blessed in my home life.
I work in a utility company in the office. I’m in IT which my talents has progressed me to work on future projects constantly. I will call my worker my work husband. I have worked with my work husband my whole career of 15 years. My work husband is 8 years older than me. He is married with two sons older than my daughters. My work husband and I are both respectable and friendly. He is not egotist nor ever abrasive even with high responsibility moments at work.
Approximately after five years working together we had a sudden start to a physical affair. On this Monday when I got ready for work my church dress was not put up so I put it on and went to work. We were around other workers most of the morning. I noticed he would keep looking at my legs. After the meeting he and I were alone doing final decisions on my iPad. I stood up and jest at him to quit looking at my legs. He got behind me and lifted my dress above my waist. I still hadn’t lost all my child bearing weight knowing his wife looks like a model. I said kind of big huh. He said all he sees is perfect. I turn around and pulled his face to me and we had a long sexual kiss. We could have been easily seen if someone had come by. Not wanting to get fired we went to a nearby toilet and I straddled him and we both orgasmed.
For several years we had sex at least 2 times a week. We only had sex during work hours. Both us us committed to our families after work. We knew what places to not likely get caught in our big office. Mostly we went to my house 5 minutes away from work and had each other for lunch.
In my mid 30’s I had trimmed up. I always dress fashionable for work but easy clothes to get out of or have sex when not undressing. I was picked at for being the dress lady and actually started a fashion at work with many ladies wore dresses to work more.
At this time my husband and I had a date night. At the restaurant he brought up that he understood I worked with men and asked did I want to open our marriage. I started crying and thought I was caught cheating on him. My husband thought I was upset because of the question. I settled down almost laughing inside myself after he apologized for the way he brought this up. I asked him did he have someone in mind for himself and he said no but constantly is attracted to many ladies he meets. We discussed this until we finished our meal then went to the suv and had sex in the parking lot. We then went home and had all night sex.
Realizing I had a cover for my long term affair and pushed this topic many times with him. We made our rules. Nothing to be seen by others. Never the daughters find out. Call before so each other can enjoy knowing enjoyment knowing the other had fun. After a month, To my surprise my husband called me and told me he would be late coming and home and he had a good chance for a fling. This really hurt me and I was so jealous but I couldn’t let him know because of my affair. I kept having my affair in secret from my husband. My husband had a few hook ups over the year. I called one day and told my husband that I was going home for lunch and told him it was going to happen. He was so excited I finally would try it.
I haven’t told him about my affair. My husband doesn’t try for a hook up often. My jealousy keeps me having sex with him very often to keep him drained. He knows why I do this and this amuses him. I have discussed slowing things down with my work husband and he agrees. We still fall for the moment sometimes though. My husband told me he is wasting his time having flings because it doesn’t get better than he gets from me.
Our daughters are in college now. My husband and I enjoy each other better than ever.
This life I have lived hasn’t been as easy as it may sound but no big issues yet. I will take to the grave my affair with work husband. Having sex with two men has kept me taking care of myself physically but has been work mentally.
I work in a utility company in the office. I’m in IT which my talents has progressed me to work on future projects constantly. I will call my worker my work husband. I have worked with my work husband my whole career of 15 years. My work husband is 8 years older than me. He is married with two sons older than my daughters. My work husband and I are both respectable and friendly. He is not egotist nor ever abrasive even with high responsibility moments at work.
Approximately after five years working together we had a sudden start to a physical affair. On this Monday when I got ready for work my church dress was not put up so I put it on and went to work. We were around other workers most of the morning. I noticed he would keep looking at my legs. After the meeting he and I were alone doing final decisions on my iPad. I stood up and jest at him to quit looking at my legs. He got behind me and lifted my dress above my waist. I still hadn’t lost all my child bearing weight knowing his wife looks like a model. I said kind of big huh. He said all he sees is perfect. I turn around and pulled his face to me and we had a long sexual kiss. We could have been easily seen if someone had come by. Not wanting to get fired we went to a nearby toilet and I straddled him and we both orgasmed.
For several years we had sex at least 2 times a week. We only had sex during work hours. Both us us committed to our families after work. We knew what places to not likely get caught in our big office. Mostly we went to my house 5 minutes away from work and had each other for lunch.
In my mid 30’s I had trimmed up. I always dress fashionable for work but easy clothes to get out of or have sex when not undressing. I was picked at for being the dress lady and actually started a fashion at work with many ladies wore dresses to work more.
At this time my husband and I had a date night. At the restaurant he brought up that he understood I worked with men and asked did I want to open our marriage. I started crying and thought I was caught cheating on him. My husband thought I was upset because of the question. I settled down almost laughing inside myself after he apologized for the way he brought this up. I asked him did he have someone in mind for himself and he said no but constantly is attracted to many ladies he meets. We discussed this until we finished our meal then went to the suv and had sex in the parking lot. We then went home and had all night sex.
Realizing I had a cover for my long term affair and pushed this topic many times with him. We made our rules. Nothing to be seen by others. Never the daughters find out. Call before so each other can enjoy knowing enjoyment knowing the other had fun. After a month, To my surprise my husband called me and told me he would be late coming and home and he had a good chance for a fling. This really hurt me and I was so jealous but I couldn’t let him know because of my affair. I kept having my affair in secret from my husband. My husband had a few hook ups over the year. I called one day and told my husband that I was going home for lunch and told him it was going to happen. He was so excited I finally would try it.
I haven’t told him about my affair. My husband doesn’t try for a hook up often. My jealousy keeps me having sex with him very often to keep him drained. He knows why I do this and this amuses him. I have discussed slowing things down with my work husband and he agrees. We still fall for the moment sometimes though. My husband told me he is wasting his time having flings because it doesn’t get better than he gets from me.
Our daughters are in college now. My husband and I enjoy each other better than ever.
This life I have lived hasn’t been as easy as it may sound but no big issues yet. I will take to the grave my affair with work husband. Having sex with two men has kept me taking care of myself physically but has been work mentally.
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