I Believe In A Balanced Life, A Woman Is Not A Man, I'm Ok With That

Those who know me can see it, others don't. In the halls and conference rooms I'm a leader, I head up a department of many. I do believe in changing the playing field and opening up positions to more women and minorities. I work hard, always have, I graduated in the top of my class, was recruited off of campus to work for my current company.

I do have another side to me. Early in my teens I was, let me soften this, taken by an older man and used for his pleasure. Over the following years I learned that giving myself was the biggest thrill, and pleasure. I'm not a church going type, but if God gave me this form, then I should use it. Pleasure comes from giving, delivering my body, my mind, my soul. A man has the temperament, the equipment, the drive to take you and posses you, who am I to question that formula.

When it comes to sex, he's the boss. When it comes to order, he's the boss. When it comes to authority, he's the boss. In life, the best kept secret is to accept him as the boss. The man of the house, a very old saying, is the way to be. I don't doubt that understanding and respecting man's authority is my secret weapon, at home, at work, at play.