I buy my girlfriend new toys all the time. She likes them but says there is really nothing like the real thing.
No. No man can compete for consistency and timing. My first husband came close so maybe a 20 year old American male can give those Japanese gizmos a run for their money. But these days, I'll bet my money on the Hitachi! LOL!
Well I've never tried a vibrator or any other sex toys for that matter, but I like the feeling of being close with a guy even if he doesn't get me off. I like getting them off and feeling wanted by someone instead of just being with an electronic device.
i agree with the last poster.theres nothin like the feeling of being loved by someone as you make love.
That's what my girlfriend says. She'll use a vibrator when we can't be together and think of me while using it, but she would rather us be together, because there is nothing like being with the one you love.
Then there's another thing. With a vibrator, the woman pretty much knows how things are going to go. With a lover, we can pull all kinds of tricks, like changing rhythms, or depth of penetration and just keep em guessing!!!
But even if you keep us guessing, it still might not be as good as what a vibrator can do. At least when we use a vibrator or masturbate, we're doing exactly what feels good. I don't really like it when a guy changes what he's doing because then I can't get a good rhythm going and it never lets me reach an orgasm.
Well, then you should learn to communicate.
I agree about the steady rhythm thing. I need the predictable pleasure to come. Plus, I can't focus on what I'm feeling if I am trying to please my husband, too. I've tried let him control the vibrator, but he keeps moving it around when I really just want it to stay on a particular spot on my clit. He says it gets boring just holding it there for the 10 minutes it takes for me to come.
We can do fine by ourselves. Just like the last poster said. We don't need so much variety to cum. When I have sex it's mostly just to be happy I'm close with a guy, and get him off. If I want to get off I have to do it myself.
You'll agree with the following or not but it's fact; "You've not yet been with the right guy, at least as far as your sex life goes."