Not A Fan
My opinion, stop bitching and be thankful she puts some effort into looking hot for you. If you discourage her it will stop. And women deserve to do things for themseleves if its not solely fo you to look nice feel sexy. A lot of wives, like mine, just stop with the sexy lingerie even if we tell them how much we love it. Appreciate her efforts.
Didn't sound like bitching to me. To each their own.
"Wasting too much money" and "totally useless to me" might not be bitching, probably a poor choice of words, but it's not positive reinforcement either, lol. I think LB58 point was, you're lucky she's at least trying because most of us don't get that kind of effort anymore. Enjoy it while you can.
Fuck the c**ts giving you grief, you came here to confess.
If you think its a waste, tell her that its a waste as she does it for you without it and tell her what does it for you.
Although lingerie may not be necessary for you, you have to consider what it may be doing for her. If dressing like that makes her feel sexy and confident, or naughty and slutty, you will likely regret not encouraging that. My wife has great outfits with frilly bras and panties that just get in the way when the action starts, so I get you, but I've learned to slow things down and appreciate the view for a little while before we get busy. She's displaying herself for you, and you shouldn't take it for granted.
Have your wife come over to my place. I’ll show her I appreciate her dressing sexy. Hell I’ll even buy her more. Any woman that goes to the trouble of doing that is a keeper and she can wear that stuff around me any time she wants. If you dont appreciate her efforts,, someone else will.