Frustrated AF
Sorry, I put it under the wrong category, however I wish it was over!
My wife banged the bejesus out of me when she went pre, I think it was at least a year, I can’t remember. She wanted it all the time and for the first time in her life she let loose sexually. I traveled for work some and I would not be surprised if she did have a one timer or two. She was craving big and dildo, a big one. Thick is what she wanted and she orgasmed like crazy on it. Dirty talking and I wasn’t helping. Just lay back and think of someone you would like to fuck, I suggested someone she actually could fuck.
Then it started slowing and just stopped, had no desire.
HRT is the answer. I’ve heard all kinds of shit, some say after menopause nothing changed. My wife was mean as hell and has been ever since.
8 years. No sex. None. Zero. It hurt. Gave up even trying. Love that girl to bits. But nothing.
Gave me permission to play away. Thought it may have been a trap. Nope. Just felt weird. Please don't provide any details. Just have fun and be careful. I'm careful. I've had a lot of fun. Wife is happy too.
" This too shall pass". Get a grip !
Ruined our marriage and led me to fucking my stepdaughter underage. Though she was the one chasing me. Wife became a fucking nightmare. I got put on sex offenders register lost my job house self respect and all because of the fucking menopause and a horned up 15 yr old teaser.