Husband Shocking Me

My husband works from home, he has a great job, makes lots of money. He's a good Dad to our disabled son, patient. Most men probably would have left by now. I work in medical, also have a good job. We rarely have sex, we're too exhausted from work and caring for our son. We have fought a lot about it in the past, I know I'm not giving him what he needs, but when we agree to it we're both too tired to enjoy it.

I left some paperwork at home yesterday, I'm my own boss at work, so I came back home around 10am to grab it. I knew I'd only be a second, so I didn't pull in the garage. I noticed a strange car parked in our cul de sac circle, but people park there to go to the different houses all the time.

I walked in the door, I usually didn't say anything since I heard mumbling, I thought my husband was on one of his frequent conference calls. I walked down the hall to peek in and wave hi, I noticed our bedroom door pulled to, which is unusual. I peeked through the crack and couldn't believe what I saw.

My husband was on all fours on the bed, dressed in a white bra and thigh highs and a thong. A well built man was behind him with what looked to be a large cock fucking my husband. He was moaning and saying oh fuck that feels good over and over. I froze because I couldn't believe what I was seeing, what seemed like a long time, but was probably only 15-30 seconds. They were facing away so they didn't see me.

I turned away and snuck back out and went back to work. I just shut my door and had all stages of thoughts. Was this my fault? Had I been ignoring him too much? Is he gay? What happens to our marriage? Could I raise my son alone? How long has this been going on? Should I get STD tested? Call an attorney?

I'm still processing all this. Has any other woman dealt with this? Tks.

Comments

Ghostman

by Ghostman on Jan 21, 2023 at 12:20 PM

Wow. That's alot. Sorry. But don't blame yourself. He is a grown as man. These are his decisions.

I recommend you discuss what you saw with him. Try to understand his side. This will guide you next action

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 21, 2023 at 12:32 PM

Damn! That is a shocking discovery. He obviously has this desire. If you are in a solid marriage, then just approach him and talk to him. If not, you may need to figure something more delicate.

This is not your doing. Just allow him to explain.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 21, 2023 at 12:46 PM

Not your fault. Get tested.

Unfortunately for whatever reason he didn't share this part of his sexuality. Give him what he wants. Get a strap on. Get several. Different sizes. And lube.

Let him know your accepting or tolerating his bi side, he's got to step up and keep your pussy happy.

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Seagull57

by Seagull57 on Jan 21, 2023 at 12:56 PM

Absolutely, talk to him. Being in a sexless marriage is difficult on both of you. He may just need a release. Best of luck!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 21, 2023 at 5:37 PM

This is the poster, thank you for the kind comments. We’ve talked all afternoon and broke for dinner and we’ll start again shortly. I told him I saw what happened and wanted to talk about it. He was upset but I told him I felt some of the blame and wanted to discuss. I knew we had slacked off on our intimacy and we needed to work on it. He was relieved I never implied I was thinking about leaving him. If anyone is interested I’ll put up another confession when we’re done.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 21, 2023 at 8:15 PM

Total bs … go somewhere else t write fiction and troll

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 21, 2023 at 8:41 PM

I had a neighbor that went through that. She had the same questions. He was having an affair with another man after 10 years of marriage. They divorced, it was messy and after a couple years they were both better off. Hopefully it won't be as messy if you decide that path. Good luck.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 22, 2023 at 8:56 AM

I often fantasize about my girl doing me with a strap-on good luck i hope everything works out for you. and thank you for sharing your story

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Seagull57

by Seagull57 on Jan 22, 2023 at 1:26 PM

Poster- let us know how it turns out.

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