Straight Male / 75+
I Love Adultery
I'm a 77 year-old married man who loves sex. I am not proud of my adultery, but I have learnt to accept myself as I am.
When I was 28, I had been married for five years. I had good sex with my wife, but I couldn't help wanting other women as well. It was tearing me apart. One day when a friend and his wife were over for dinner, he opened up about the times he had been propositioned by women while he was on jobs. He was an electrician. In one of his anecdotes, he mentioned a woman in her early 40s who taught piano from her home. There was enough information in his description that I was able to track her down. I figured that if she tried it on with one man, she'd be up for it with another.
I worked unsocial hours and was often at home when my wife was at work. I phoned the piano teacher and asked if I could have one lesson to see how I got on. When I got in her house, I came straight to the point. I told her I was looking for a lover. Within minutes, we were on the floor fucking. Her husband was much older than her and only had sex on Sunday mornings. He never got on top and always came too quickly.
Sex with Marjorie was incredible. She was slim, good looking and always horny. However, I was consumed by guilt and vowed never to see her again, but after two or three weeks, the arousal would overpower me and I would go to see her again. Guilt took over again. It was a vicious circle.
I decided to break the circle and confess to my wife. It was the most selfish thing I've ever done. Over the next 20 years, I advertised in personals and had numerous affairs and usually confessed to my wife. I had wonderful sex, always with married women, who loved their husbands but we're sexually deprived. They chose what seemed to be the lesser of evils. For me, the cycle of arousal, sex, guilt and confession eventually led to divorce.
After divorce, I had therapy. I wanted to lose my propensity to cheat, but over more than a year, I learnt to love myself and accept myself as I am. I then began a number of open relationships . There was a time when I was sleeping with five different women, all of whom were happy with my seeing the others. None of my family or friends knew of my lifestyle.
After six years being single I was introduced to a woman by a friend. I married her and stopped sleeping around, but after two years, my wife hit the menopause and lost interest in sex. I went back to my old ways, but this time, no guilt and no confession. I love my wife deeply. Confessing would hurt her. I can't live without physical intimacy with a woman. I have two lovers. One of them lives far away. I rarely see her. The other has an impotent husband. She finds it difficult to get out so we have sex only perhaps three times a year.
I've resorted to financial arrangements with a few women. They aren't professional whores, just normal women who like sex and need a bit of extra cash. I've become good friends with them. I remain happily married and sexually fulfilled without guilt
When I was 28, I had been married for five years. I had good sex with my wife, but I couldn't help wanting other women as well. It was tearing me apart. One day when a friend and his wife were over for dinner, he opened up about the times he had been propositioned by women while he was on jobs. He was an electrician. In one of his anecdotes, he mentioned a woman in her early 40s who taught piano from her home. There was enough information in his description that I was able to track her down. I figured that if she tried it on with one man, she'd be up for it with another.
I worked unsocial hours and was often at home when my wife was at work. I phoned the piano teacher and asked if I could have one lesson to see how I got on. When I got in her house, I came straight to the point. I told her I was looking for a lover. Within minutes, we were on the floor fucking. Her husband was much older than her and only had sex on Sunday mornings. He never got on top and always came too quickly.
Sex with Marjorie was incredible. She was slim, good looking and always horny. However, I was consumed by guilt and vowed never to see her again, but after two or three weeks, the arousal would overpower me and I would go to see her again. Guilt took over again. It was a vicious circle.
I decided to break the circle and confess to my wife. It was the most selfish thing I've ever done. Over the next 20 years, I advertised in personals and had numerous affairs and usually confessed to my wife. I had wonderful sex, always with married women, who loved their husbands but we're sexually deprived. They chose what seemed to be the lesser of evils. For me, the cycle of arousal, sex, guilt and confession eventually led to divorce.
After divorce, I had therapy. I wanted to lose my propensity to cheat, but over more than a year, I learnt to love myself and accept myself as I am. I then began a number of open relationships . There was a time when I was sleeping with five different women, all of whom were happy with my seeing the others. None of my family or friends knew of my lifestyle.
After six years being single I was introduced to a woman by a friend. I married her and stopped sleeping around, but after two years, my wife hit the menopause and lost interest in sex. I went back to my old ways, but this time, no guilt and no confession. I love my wife deeply. Confessing would hurt her. I can't live without physical intimacy with a woman. I have two lovers. One of them lives far away. I rarely see her. The other has an impotent husband. She finds it difficult to get out so we have sex only perhaps three times a year.
I've resorted to financial arrangements with a few women. They aren't professional whores, just normal women who like sex and need a bit of extra cash. I've become good friends with them. I remain happily married and sexually fulfilled without guilt
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