Tell him that you want to do it at the same time...69. He's a fool to pass it up.
Wow that is hard for me to imagine as I have never heard before that any guy doesn't want to go down on girl and eat her out. I know all guys or so I thought I knew love to eat girls out. I know I do! YUMMY!
My suggestion is... you guys talk about how you guys would feel about doing this and that. It is very important to have good communication between you guys and know what each other would like to do and know what and how to make each other feel good. Don't be afraid to ask anything as it is essential to have open communication as it has huge impact and help improve the relationship.
Just tell him you're not giving him a blow job if he won't do it to you back. He can't have it both ways. What, does he think his tastes of strawberries?
I agree completely with post 3315. Being able and willing to talk to each other is very important.
Although I believe for the most part they have changed in the past dozen years; previously most black guys would not go down there. This was told to me first "hand" by a black guy.
Shave your pussy and tell him that the only way you'll blow him is in the 69 position.
Wear panties that will turn him on, like pink with lace. Then touch him and get him excited and then tell him to do it to you first. He will