Lesbian Tranny With Stamina Issues

I'm a passable trans woman and I have 'premature ejaculation'. Whenever I masturbate I can only last for a minute or two, sometimes less. I'm both turned on and embarrassed by how fast I cum. I've never had sex without being drunk because I'm scared to disappoint a partner or embarrass myself. I fantasize a lot about finding a dominant woman who loves being in control and edging and teasing my overly sensitive 'clit'. I want a partner who is turned on by my lack of stamina, but I don't know how to find such a woman. It's a conundrum. I'm trying to learn to accept my unique sexuality. All comments and questions are welcome!