My Wife

My wife and I are laying in bed a few weeks ago and she says ‘can I tell you something - no judgement and without you getting mad?’ Yeah, sounds like a set up, but I agreed.

I have a coworker that flirts with me all of the time. He knows I am married but he says he wants to fuck me. I am just telling you to get it off my chest.

I was mad, but happy she had told me. It came up a couple of times since then but the last time was different. She actually sounded interested. So I asked her if she was. She said well, he is much younger, fit, full of energy, blah blah blah. I felt uneasy, but it was probably true and I am not all of that anymore.

I told her to see where it went without it going anywhere and we can talk about it more.

Well that discussion came three nights ago. She said he flirted hard that day at work. She told him she was married again and he just said to her, let’s just go somewhere after work to fuck and see if you like it.

That is where we are at. If I say go for it, she will go for it. If I say no, she may be mad.

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Seagull57

by Seagull57 on Feb 23, 2023 at 3:52 AM

I honestly don't know what to tell you. Do you trust her? Do you think that it will be a simple One and Done or is there a possibility of the affair continuing? It sounds as though she is looking for more than just a little Strange. She seems interested in this guy (which is not good). I would try to redirect her towards an escort. You can both choose who she fucks and you can be certain that it's a one time thing. I hope this helps!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 23, 2023 at 5:05 AM

I am under no illusion that I am perfect. But in reality, a virile 28 year old probably has more in the tank than I do. And I know we do not have sex more than once a month.

I do trust her, as we have been married for 25 years. The thought of her having another guys cock in her seems odd. But after 25 years, I just want her happy and fulfilled.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 23, 2023 at 5:32 AM

You might take the approach of saying to your wife, "you can fuck him if you'll both let me be in the room to watch". That will either nip it in the bud or it could turn into something quite fun.

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Seagull57

by Seagull57 on Feb 23, 2023 at 8:54 AM

Andy, Seagull57 (1st reply), I too have been married for a 25 years and I know how things can slow down. I think that you really need to talk with your wife.
Is she simply looking for more sex and attention? Has she forgotten how it feels to be wanted and lusted after? Or, is she looking for a bigger change? You may only need to set aside your daily stresses and focus on treating your wife more a sexy woman and less like a roommate! Btw, while writing this, I realized that this is advice that I should follow as well!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 23, 2023 at 4:56 PM

I'll be honest, I think its playing with fire. If you were in an open relationship, that might be different. To mess with your faithful marriage could change things. Procede with caution. Maybe figure out how to get the engine to roar again. Give some extra attention to licking her, and pleasing her to get her mind off the young buck.

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AdultOrphan

by AdultOrphan on Feb 23, 2023 at 6:19 PM

Andy, I think you're concerns are justified. She's liking the attention a younger man is giving her. You'd like it too if a twenty-something women practically opened her legs and gave you the all-clear.

You need to think long and hard about the ramifications of allowing her her dalliance if she wants to. And of course, there's the other man in question; once he gets a taste he might hound her or blackmail her etc.

25 years is a long time to be in a marriage and it will inevitably get stale. Find (new) activities to do together

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 23, 2023 at 6:36 PM

This site is littered with guys who gave their ok for their wives to fuck another guy and once she gets a taste of it they dont want to stop. And do you really think this 28 yo is going to take his foot off the gas after he fucks your wife for several hours and gets the fuck of his life? No hes going to at a minimum want to do it again, maximum try to steal her. Ive been the other guy at work with married women who became my fwbs in the office. We have an instance edge over husbands because we are something different, we arent a symbol of the day to day responsibilities they deal with, kids, school work, house, bills. First I would say to her, so if you do him you are ok with me fucking a woman I work with? That usually snaps them back to reality and ends any thought of it. If she continues to want to do it, I can tell you, those things Ive seen in person end up with one or more of… people get hurt, bad rumors start at work, people get fired, and people get divorced. Ive seen all those first hand. Btw I didnt start all of my work situations, 75% of the time I was a friend, had no interest in sex, they griped about their home life, kids, husbands, I was a good listener, they turned it physical. My advice, dont let it happen. If she does it anyway, start putting money away in a separate account and start browsing for good lawyers. Hope this helps. Good luck.

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Derwood_lolly

by Derwood_lolly on Feb 23, 2023 at 7:59 PM

How have you felt after having some time to think about it? Did you become excited from it even tho your mind could be saying something different? How often does she talk about him? How does she act after talking about him?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 24, 2023 at 9:56 PM

My husband gave me permission to cheat long before I had any desire to. Since I already had permission, it was harder for me to resist temptation, but I did.

My first sex outside of marriage was not consensual. I was bringing in groceries from my car and a guy ran up behind me and forced himself on me in my living room. Once he left, I put the fridge and frozen stuff away and drove towards the police station. As I got close, I realized I should go to the hospital. As I neared the hospital, I slowly changed my mind and went home. I didn't know WHY but by this point, all I wanted to do was go home and pleasure myself. So, I did.

So, the next time I was at work and that crude coworker flirted with me, I flirted back. Next thing I knew we were doing things in his car. I wasn't attracted to him at all, but he was eager, and I needed to scratch that itch. Anyways, that is how I got started messing around behind my husband's back, even though he wanted me to and wanted to watch. I liked it behind his back because I felt more in control of it and did it for me

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 5, 2023 at 8:54 AM

I personally feel honored that other men want to, and do fuck my wife. She is beautiful with a great body, even at 63. Her tits do hang a bit when she takes off her bra, but I have never seen a guy put off by that. I know how great her pussy feels when my cock goes in, and how good she is at sucking cock. Having her fuck other men takes nothing away from our relationship, and we both enjoy her having fun.

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