Anyone Else?

I have a hot wife. No not the fuck around kind, an attractive, blond, huge 32G natural firm tits, sexy wife. All the guys she's around hit on her constantly, she ignores it all, never even notices anymore. They stare at her tits, her ass, chat her up at the gym, ask her out
for coffee, etc.

The problem is, she has absolutely zero desire for sex. None. She plays with a toy every few weeks for 5 minutes and that's enough to last her. I ask her what gets her going, she claims nothing or she doesn't know.

Any guy seeing her naked and her giant melon tits would start cuming immediately at the site, they are awesome. She's quite a sight. But nothing, zero desire. I'm not a Shrek or anything. I'm decent looking, workout 6x a week, and have a nice sized long lasting cock. I've had to resort to FWBs and they are satisfied and wonder WTH her problem is.

I have a friend, his wife is average looking, dresses very conservatively, very prim and proper. But behind closed doors, she's a freak. Threesomes, constantly goes around in sexy outfits or even nude in and outdoors around their house. Loves to suck cock and fuck. Loves to play with her toys, tease, have her ass licked, etc.

Looking back, I should have snagged a plain one like he did. The ones who think they aren't extremely hot try hard to keep their man happy. They appreciate the fact that their man wanted to be with them, not like they were doing them some big favor to allow them to marry them.

No wonder guys my age start thinking about exploring with each other. The women middle aged either are taken already by several men or don't want sex. My sex drive is the same as always. Hers is gone. If she ever had one. Anyone else in the same boat?