This Happened To A Close Friend Of Mine

My close friend who I've known since 2nd grade fell into the porn world. After highschool, i went off to college and she stayed back home. We slowly heard less and less from each other as we focused on other things. then the story broke that she was doing porn. I tried to get ahold of her but she changed her number and fell off the map.
She got back in contact with me and is staying with me for the moment. She revealed all the messed up things she did while she was in that world and it made me cringe.
They had her stay in a house with other girls who do the same thing. If they weren't comfortable performing with a certain person or a certain scene, they'd be forced to do it anyway. They made good money but we're tempted and encouraged to spend it on things like designer clothes, j*welry and makeup just to keep them broke. She got addicted to bad things because it was easier to perform while under the influence. She's had some many abortions that now she doesn't think she can have kids anymore. The lifelong humiliation of having everyone you know see you having sex on the internet weighs on her more than anything. And the worst part is there's nothing she can do. The people she worked with don't use real names or have legitimate businesses. Stay away from that life, girls!!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 8, 2023 at 2:45 PM

Sounds like something from Dr. Phil. LOl.

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RichardStands

by RichardStands on Apr 8, 2023 at 5:57 PM

Commenter #1 nailed it..

If you feel like you've been victimized by the adult industry, don't post it here.
Your friend's life has not been destroyed.

She just needs to own the decisions she's made instead of blaming the industry.
If she was mature enough and had thought through some of the choices before she made them, things might have been different for her.
They still could be if she would take control of her material and her work.

The women that point the finger at the industry itself and make their poor set of decisions into a crusade to supposedly help others do the most damage of all.

After years of experience in the industry, one thing I know is true.
It is all about the women and they can market themselves and their proclivities in so many different creative ways, through putting their name on adult toy lines, adult lingerie lines, scents, creams, condoms, etc., etc.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 8, 2023 at 11:59 PM

True or not, I wouldn't say some part of the industry, especially the service, doesn't have its fair share of exploitation.

I've been around a fair few friends with troubled backgrounds and have heard plenty on what they've done as result.

I remember one of them, Hannah, was very poor and during high school was trying to support her family with summer jobs. Well one time she came across some creeps that gave her an offer too hard to pass, a couple hundred pounds worth each. What gets me worse isn't that she went through with it, but that it was all recorded. I don't think after that, she ever again dabbled into extorting herself, but it actually makes me sick to think there's guys like that who knowingly do stuff like that.

So while the industry at large has rules, it still has one too many creeps that exploit people too vulnerable to refuse, or worse, part of the service of trafficking.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 9, 2023 at 5:34 AM

I have learned that life means nothing until I, we, you give it meaning. I stay focused on what is good about the experiences of my life, My mother tried to throw me out a third floor window , she had issues , what was good about that you may be asking. she did not succeed! That is not the totality of my mother she had so many good things about her. I had compassion , let go of the pass mom, there is so much good here right now, When I was a kid 9 yrs, two guys jumped me 18yrs and tried to dick me in the ass. I yelled so loud they panicked and ran, what's good , I was not killed! Learn to let go of the bad and focus on the good. when you read the sex stories here you see this , the same story one sad and the other is glad.

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