Married Young

I have been married for 5 years, which gives you an idea of when I got caught with an older boy who was 19 at the time. We were having sex and my parents, father is a deputy in our county, made my boyfriend marry me. We had a baby within 10 months of getting married, and another a year after. I went on BC. He is good to me, sex is good for him, I've let him do it whenever and wherever he wants. He loves to make it in my butt. But in about 5 and a half years or so of having sex, I've never experienced an orgasm from sex.

My husband had 3 girlfriends before me and he says all of them did it, and loved it, said he was the best. He says it's all me and until I can get into it and get my own orgasms he's doing all he can. I know he has cheated on me with at least 4 other girls. I don't care honestly, it's less I have to take care of him. As it is, I still get sex at least 10 times a week if not more. I know he didn't want to marry me, I'm pretty chubby, was big back then too and he likes tall thin blonde girls best.

He's the only one that has ever had sex with me, I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but after two kids and over 5 years of sex very often. I want to orgasm.

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logan2020

by logan2020 on Apr 12, 2023 at 1:37 PM

I'm sorry to hear. You deserve orgasms and a fulfilling sex life. Let's start with a few facts that contradict your husband.

It's only about 30% of women who can orgasm from PIV (penis in vagina) intercourse. Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. If you don't have a vibrator, get one! And consider using it on your clit during intercourse. Being in doggie position during that is a great option. Another great clit toy is called the Satisfyer Pro. It's still a clitoral toy but it has a neat air pulsing effect that a lot of woman prefer over a buzzy vibrator.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 12, 2023 at 2:30 PM

Doesn’t he eat you?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 12, 2023 at 3:26 PM

learn where your clit is, find it, make it your friend, rub it, stroke it, you will have an orgasm. Also go on amazon and get yourself a 'rabbit vibrator', oh yeah baby!

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Derwood_lolly

by Derwood_lolly on Apr 12, 2023 at 4:07 PM

My wife said she didn't befoe but i make an effort to make her cum first.

Definitely get a vibrator they will help you out heaps.

Find something that turns you on. Do you self pleasure? You need to find what turns you on then just being there for him

Hope to hear how you go.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 13, 2023 at 5:32 AM

My Daddy says your man must be doing something wrong. His motto is "Show me a guy who doesn't eat pussy and I'll show you a woman that can be stolen away".

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 13, 2023 at 5:43 AM

The Hitachi-style wand vibrators are very good as well.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 17, 2023 at 5:00 AM

No body today will tell you what you need to hear, but I’m going to, it starts with self pride, do some things for yourself, ,your guy is just using you as holes…..take pride in yourself, do what ever it takes to get yourself in better physical shape, it has so many benefits, starting with health, and self worth, the it changes into sexual desires, both yours and his, he will desire you I promise,it has a side effect of others noticing you as well, this makes your guy desire you as well, don’t just take the easy way out with a vibrator!!!! I like it when my wife uses toys too, but sounds like you are young and have a lot of life a head of you, this will only get worse if you don’t make some changes to yourself. It’s all for you, and your husband and family,life is short, make it enjoyable,
Good luck, you can do this!!!

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