My Wife Made The Yardboy A Yardman. Now He Won't Let Her Alone

My wife and I have always had an open relationship, even before we were married. We were both highly sexual and didn't want to give that up. Having said that, there have been long periods when we've been monogamous, through inertia if nothing else.

My 37 year old wife broke a long monogamous spell last month when we hired a new yard man to mow . I could tell she had the hots for him when they first met. He was young and shy, and he didn't seem to know how to handle the flirting my wife was dishing his way. You could tell he was really taken with her though.

They had sex one time when I wasn't home. To hear her tell it, it was a little disappointing. He came in no time and kept apologizing. After that, he started calling her at all hours, sending her little notes, telling her how much he loves her, and leaving g*fts for her. She made it clear that what happened was a one time thing, she's not interested, but he wouldn't listen.

One day last week I saw him across the street in his truck, staring at our house. I went outiside and before he could get his truck started, I told him Lita's already married, I'm her husband, and to stay the hell away unless he wanted to get arrested as a stalker. Haven't seen him since and I hope that's the end of it.