Straight Male / 48
Other Guy Reflections
I've had several affairs over the years. Some people might find that distasteful, but all of my liaisons were for the most part initiated by the women. I'm not Brad Pitt, but I'm average looking, work out a lot, have a decent sized cock and can go a long time, but mostly I am a good listener and a giver in bed.
All of the women I've been with had husbands at home that never listened to them, paid as much attention, thought they were still hot, cared about their sexual needs and satisfaction. In most cases I was not looking for anything sexual, I was just friendly and someone to complain to about their husbands and kids that would listen and care.
While sex was smoking hot and these women would do things you never would have dreamed they would be into, the downsides made it questionable whether it was worth it or not. If you ever find yourself in a position to start something, here's a few things I encountered.
Issues like...
Finding a place to play
Sneaking around without getting caught
Jealous husbands. One women actually told her husband how many multiple times we had been doing it. He responded by burning their bed. He never confronted me even though we worked at the same company.
Another husband was into watching. That is until his wife was making noises he never heard before and having multiple orgasms. He sat in the corner of the hotel room and pouted until I asked him to join in.
Them telling someone. Friends, husbands, family, etc.
The downsides...
You are *not* part of their family
You have to watch every word you say as to not offend her
You must perform sexually and make sure she is well satisfied *every* time
You must stay in shape and well groomed
She can have a very short memory and cut things off. "We never did anything"
You cannot develop any emotional links to her
You should assume every time you sex her it could be the last time
If you accompany them on a trip you are a sex toy not family
If it ends, you are supposed to forget it ever happened
If I had it to do over would I? I don't know. I've had some incredible sex, but there are prices for everything...
All of the women I've been with had husbands at home that never listened to them, paid as much attention, thought they were still hot, cared about their sexual needs and satisfaction. In most cases I was not looking for anything sexual, I was just friendly and someone to complain to about their husbands and kids that would listen and care.
While sex was smoking hot and these women would do things you never would have dreamed they would be into, the downsides made it questionable whether it was worth it or not. If you ever find yourself in a position to start something, here's a few things I encountered.
Issues like...
Finding a place to play
Sneaking around without getting caught
Jealous husbands. One women actually told her husband how many multiple times we had been doing it. He responded by burning their bed. He never confronted me even though we worked at the same company.
Another husband was into watching. That is until his wife was making noises he never heard before and having multiple orgasms. He sat in the corner of the hotel room and pouted until I asked him to join in.
Them telling someone. Friends, husbands, family, etc.
The downsides...
You are *not* part of their family
You have to watch every word you say as to not offend her
You must perform sexually and make sure she is well satisfied *every* time
You must stay in shape and well groomed
She can have a very short memory and cut things off. "We never did anything"
You cannot develop any emotional links to her
You should assume every time you sex her it could be the last time
If you accompany them on a trip you are a sex toy not family
If it ends, you are supposed to forget it ever happened
If I had it to do over would I? I don't know. I've had some incredible sex, but there are prices for everything...
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