All In All With Two Babies We Have Decided It's Best To Get Married

In college I had a close girlfriend. We had been friends since started their and got along real well. In our Junior year we met these guys and one of them started to hit on her. At a party one night he got her in a compromised position and got her pregnant. That was in 2017. She went ahead and had the baby and finished college, with me backing her up with babysitting while she went to class. It was sort me being the other mother to the baby.

After we finished our degrees we moved together, with the baby, for a job I had been interviewed for on campus. Better to move with a job than without one, although I wasn't that crazy about the job. We set up house in a two bedroom unit, she had one room with the baby and I had the other room. We were pretty exclusive with each other and didn't date. We were accused of being lesbians, but we aren't.

Along comes DADDY. He wants his part with the baby and he gets me pregnant . She was born in 2019. After many talks she doesn't want to live with him so we continue living together. During 2020 I lost my job and we lived off of government assistance and unemployment. It's too much to handle, so one room is for the babies and she moves in with me. The tongues do not strop wagging. Friends and family are over convinced that they had been right all along.

Our Baby Daddy pays support on time and we let him see the babies. We try to keep our distance from him but that's not always possible. We manage to get through 2022 without getting pregnant again. We don't change our rules, he gets visitation and we get child support. It's been a long time now since we were in school, we have lived together going on five years. Penis free living.

Today we are more likely to accept that we have platonic lesbian life. Or that we have just gotten so used to living together that it has become natural. I got a job in 2021 and have been there ever since, and she is the homebody looking after the kids and cooking. We are a regular husband wife routine, penis free, but nonetheless I pretty much the husband and she is pretty much the wife.

We have decided to get married. Keeps nosy people from asking questions, and sets a boundary with our baby Daddy. Not that we expect him to respect it. We have talked about being married in two white dresses. She's doing the research and we agree on which way to go afterwards. We've given up on a destination wedding, so it looks like it might be a back yard affair at her parents' house.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 4, 2023 at 10:49 AM

That's nice, Are you on the right site? Seems more suited for Dr. Phil Show or something.

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by Anonymous on May 4, 2023 at 12:28 PM

This is fine. Live your lives for yourself and your children, not for tongue wagging fools. It sounds like you made the right choices.

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by Anonymous on May 4, 2023 at 5:07 PM

Congratulations on your engagement. Good Job making choices that are best for you and your children. Spend money on a Great wedding photographer and wing it on the rest.

From a old Father who has learned Love is Love

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