are you saying youve never had an orgasm from sex or you havent ever had an orgasm, even with masturbation?
it is completely normal for younger women to not have orgasms from vaginal penetration ONLY. during intercourse, try rubbing your clitoris as the session ends... you may get an orgasm if you do it right. .... but if youve masturbated in the past without orgasm, then definitely go to your gynecologist and get it figured out. ...
some people can never experience an orgasm- ... im sure it happens naturally, but the cases ive heard of were all from surgical mistakes.
Two yrs with a guy who couldn't "get you off," sounds almost hard to believe. Bet my GF would of been out the door in a matter of days if any of her previous guys, me included, couldn't "do it" for her.
So how about some toys..... any of them ever work for ya?
The first person who replied had good suggestions about that..I would like to ad that problems like that can be the result of some kind of inner conflict,such as guilt,shame,etc...And the tricky thing here is that if someone has had a certain negative feeling all along, then they may not even notice it because there is no comparison....I would recommend that you check out DRSUSANBLOCK.com...not only is the website erotic, but Susan is a very, very smart sex therapist..and the website is very informative about sex, and sex problems...
Thank you to the above reply. I'm 21 an also not have an orgasm. I will confess I only brought my 1st vibrator 2 weeks ago - very busy house hold - and haven't had much of a chance to use it yet.
My m8s have said you've gota learn yourself how to orgasm before you can teach the guy as everyones different.
I will look at the website - thanx for posting it.
I will keep you updated :)
Two weeks and you didn't try the thing; hard to believe.
When I was married to my first husband I never experienced an O ...and I believe it was because I didn't really feel comfortable with him..my O's didn't start until I included a toy and had my partner help me. The best one's were when my partner would use one finger in one hole and one in the other..while I buzzed away..and then after I did orgasm we would have sex and my O would continue until my partner was worn out..*wink*
