I spend time with a really fun gal; been doing so for over 5 years. I help her with her finances and I know she has some drug issues. She claims she does not sleep with others but I can only wonder. Well that's my confession.
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by Anonymous on Nov 6, 2006 at 1:55 AM
From the title, "Crack Whore," I have to wonder if you're feeling pent up hostility toward this woman, even though she's a "fun gal." If that's true, then it shouldn't take much to tell her adios. The truth is, you can't trust anyone with a substance abuse problem, especially if she claims she's faithful to you. Remember, one of the highest risk groups for HIV are dug users (and not just the interveinious kind, either - promiscuity common to all drug users opens the door to that danger). I imagine you've thought about that.
And what does this "financial help" entail? Are you just handing her money, right and left? If so, consider her a leach, and drop her. I know of what I speak - I had been involved with Satans' concubine years ago, and I let the bitch bleed my wallet white, all because I thought I loved her...
But I digress.
But if I'm totally wrong about your brief description of this young woman, and you honestly feel there's something worth fighting for, tell her to choose between you and the drugs. Tell her you know getting off of them won't be easy, but you'll be there every step of the way with her. If she accepts your offer, and even if she has the occassional relapse up the road, she's a keeper, I suppose.
But if she tells you no, mind your own business, tell her: fuck you. She can find a new sugar daddy, while you get to hold onto your paycheck, and your self respect.
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by Anonymous on Nov 6, 2006 at 4:27 AM
Pretty much had to do the same thing with my sister. She started with drinking and smoking pot, then graduated to coke and finally ended up with heroin and probably crack too.
She has a 135 IQ, a great cook and a phenomonal artist.
She had the personality that could melt anyone. Drugs changed that. She eventually resorted to stealing and I don't want to know what else.
You CAN'T get these people off drugs, BELEIVE ME.
Does not matter how much you threaten, beg, cry or even put them in a rehab. The ONLY one who can stop them is themselves.
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by Anonymous on Nov 6, 2006 at 8:24 PM
I believe if it was me or the drugs she would probably try to give up the drugs; all but alcohol that is. She claims she loves her beer too much to ever give it up and as long as she stays trim I have no problem with it. As for my wallet; well her line is she's, "a lot cheeper then a wife," and with that I have to agree, and since my wallet is "heavy," taking care of most of her financial needs (rent,utilities, food and booze)is also not a problem. I suppose its just the price a guy must pay to have a little hottie 20 yrs younger. Sure beats having a big ole overweight wife bitching in my face all the time and also sucking on my wallet like several couples I see out there.
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by Anonymous on Nov 6, 2006 at 10:36 PM
4738 here. As a matter of fact, I am married, and it's great. Neither of us have much money, but we're happy, and we have a wonderful little girl, to boot. I never would have had that if I had stuck with Satans' concubine. And geuss what? My wallet doesn't get sucked dry by either my wife or my daughter.
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by Anonymous on Nov 7, 2006 at 2:14 AM
From 4739..It sounds almost like she is a prostitute to you. "It's the price you pay for a hottie?" Comon.
You must be old enough to know better.
Been married for 16 years with 3 kids. We are well off also, but we came into the marriage as equals. Sounds more like you are a sugar daddy.Since you have a heavy wallet, you probably are educated and have a high position job.
Why don't you find your "equal" to share fun/expenses with
so you would not be posting here about your current situation?
Also, I wiould be willing to bet my left arm she will not give up drugs just because you ask her/give her an ultimatum.
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by Anonymous on Nov 7, 2006 at 1:54 PM
Been looking; guess just not in the right places.
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by Anonymous on Nov 7, 2006 at 1:59 PM
Well just wait till she gets to her teens. At 17 mine is always seeking the money tree (me) when not in school, at her job, or shopping.
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by Anonymous on Nov 10, 2006 at 7:47 PM
Does she have a sister I could meet?
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by Anonymous on Nov 23, 2007 at 6:42 PM
My crack whore is by ex wife Rebecca.
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