Self Conscious

I am a 24 yr old female. Something happened 6 months ago that made me so self conscious and embarrassed I stopped dating all together. I am now terrified to be with a man.
Let me explain. Early in college I got into a serious relationship. It lasted 5 years. We dated and eventually moved in together until breaking up 7 months ago. Here is the kicker. He was very well endowed. Actually that doesn't describe it, he had a MONSTER COCK. One time I showed my girlfriends a nude picture of him and they actually did not believe it was real. Anyway, over the 5 years I got used to taking something that large. I could easily take it, even anally, and we were very sexually active.
Fast forward to the break up. I went back out into the dating world. Met a guy and after a couple of dates we had sex. He had what I would describe as an average size cock. We tried to have sex and it didn't work, he kept going limp. After several tries he finally told me he could not keep an erection because I was extremely "loose". I was crushed. I can't imagine trying to have sex with a man again for fear of what he will think about my loose vagina.
What can I do?

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by Anonymous on Jun 10, 2023 at 6:36 AM

Do some pelvic floor exercises and some keegals. My wife has had two babies and is still very satisfyingly tight. It takes time but it’s a start.

My question is will an average cock pleasure you now? You may need to get a monster dildo if not.

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by Anonymous on Jun 10, 2023 at 6:39 AM

Look into laser surgery and tighten up the loose ends

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by Anonymous on Jun 10, 2023 at 8:01 AM

He is a insecure asshat set aside what he said. Believe me there are a lot of men who will thoroughly enjoy fucking you.

Do work out and work your pelvic muscles with Keggles and squats not to make your pussy tighter. You do it so when you orgasm it is more intense for you and him as a afterthought.

As a late 50's carpenter I can tell you the guy loosing his erection had other issues other than anything to do with your pussy. He lost his erection and lashed out from a mix of sham and humiliation male ego's are fragile. I have spent 40+ years cradling them at work. Do not let this effect you long term.

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by Anonymous on Jun 10, 2023 at 8:12 AM

Sounds rather odd. I've been with my well-endowed hubby for over ten years, had a baby and my pussy always snaps back. I can still squeeze him tight and make him twitch after he cums. ( much to my delight). Nora.

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by Anonymous on Jun 10, 2023 at 8:33 AM

Well, Nora's a big help, isn't she ?
Just what a girl posting a story under Embarrassing Moments called 'Self Conscious' wants to hear.
I'm a 70 year old male, and speaking from experience, listen to the 'late 50's carpenter' commenter before Nora.
He telling you the truth.
And if it helps at all, I actually prefer women with looser pussies.
My last wife was a dancer and escort and was dating 3 different BBC when I met her.
She was wide open and I loved f*cking her, especially after she'd just got home from taking a big cock.

by Capnron648 on Jun 10, 2023 at 9:23 AM

This whole thing is nutz. Contrary to some of the experts (sic), this idea that a big cock somehow stretches out a pussy permanently is laughable. Maybe after a few births it will loosen up, but not many cocks are the size of a baby's friggin' head. ( except maybe on the 'Net). LMAO.

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by Anonymous on Jun 10, 2023 at 2:25 PM

I read this last night and, for some reason, it stuck with me all while I was choring today.

My reflexive response last night was "now you know how guys with tiny dicks feel", but that's not really constructive is it? So, here are my thoughts:

As other people have said:
1. Kegels and similar exercises might help
2. Your body is meant to pass a child, it will tighten back up.
3. That guy probably has other issues (like being self conscious about his average (which, if he watches porn, looks tiny) dick)

But, coming from a guy with a tiny dick (4 inches, not particularly thick either), my recommendation is to compensate in other ways. I've always known that my dick is small, so I always started with going down on the girl and making sure she gets at least one orgasm before I stick it in and disappoint her. You can do similarly - how's your tongue and throat game? You said you'd take him anally, presumably your ass is tight enough (otherwise you'd be incontinent), so use that. Come to the table as an all holes girl and let him pick whichever he wants, make sure the other parts of the relationship are good and everything will fall into place.

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by Anonymous on Jun 11, 2023 at 7:28 AM

I have several suggestions, several of which have already been brought up by someone else, but I think you should try them all until you find technique or combination of techniques that work for you:
1. Kegels... daily. They are good for strengthening both the vaginal and rectal muscles.
2. Have him penetrate you simultaneously with his penis and a vibrating silicone dildo.
3. Give him oral... plenty of oral.
4. Anal sex.
5. Fisting.

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