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Is She Teasing Me?

I have a female coworker who seems to be happily married. She talks about her family and husband a lot. She appears to be fairly conservative. Kind of a soccer mom type. My guess is she’s early to mid 40s. Teenagers at home. But Here’s the thing. I think she’s hitting on me.

Lately she’s stopping by my office for silly reasons. Is talking to me more than before. Noticed that I lost weight. Complimenting my haircut. Double entendres on occasion. On Monday she made a jokey comment about “my package” when there was a box on my desk. She’s sorta goofs around in general but that comment seemed extra flirty.

This morning she stopped in my office to have me sign a get well card for a coworker. I noticed her blouse was unbuttoned lower than usual. She leaned in with the card and seemed like she gave me an intentional view of her cleavage. Later in a staff meeting I saw it was buttoned up normally.

She’s very cute for a mom type and has a nice athletic body; keeps herself in great shape. I gotta admit I’ve fantasized about her. My instincts say she wants me to reciprocate but I’m not sure what my move here is.

Advice would be appreciated.

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# 66072 - by BradF / June 21, 2023

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by Anonymous on Jun 21, 2023 at 1:44 PM

Ive been in a few work affairs. The sex was hot but risky. Everyone involved and some innocent were affected. People lost jobs, reputations trashed, divorces. Somehow I came out unaffected, mostly because they had ended it with me and moved on to someone else. I would be very cautious, especially nowdays. You could both lose your jobs, you could get accused of sexual harassment, or word get back to your wife. I wish I could say go for it. But things have changed in the workplace. Good luck with whatever you decide.

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by Patmale on Jun 21, 2023 at 2:10 PM

Try touching her on these areas
A hand on her shoulder,the back of her arm or elbow.
A shirt laying of your fingers on top of her hand.

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by Anonymous on Jun 21, 2023 at 2:15 PM

Just because she is married, doesn't mean she is happily married! I would say yes she is trying to "put the moves on you". Be careful here because as fun as it probably would be for you, you don't want to be the catalyst that wrecks a home. My sister and I were 15 and 17 when a man cooed my mother away from my father. And in spite of us being "older kids" the fall out , pain and side effects of our parents separating certainly had a negative impact for us. Not even a year later the new romance fizzled out and left my mother with many years of guilt and wishing she could turn back time. Our father struggled to find trust after that. Sounds like your capable of finding a fine looking single girl. Let some other shmuck break the marriage, or let her leave the marriage before you park your car in the garage.

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by Anonymous on Jun 21, 2023 at 2:31 PM

As far as an affair with a co-worker, as tempting as it may seem, it comes with a great risk. As an older mature man experienced in the ways of the world once told me, " You don't shit where you eat" !

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by Anonymous on Jun 21, 2023 at 2:50 PM

Ok BradF, ignore the moral police above. Her situation is her responsibility, not yours. Also I'd be cautious about instigating touch unless she does. What I WOULD do, is the next time she pops by to chat, hold her gaze. Do not break eye contact. Don't even reply immediately. Let an awkward silence occur before you speak back. You'll know if it's on. Wish you luck and sexual tension BradF.

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by AdultOrphan on Jun 21, 2023 at 6:04 PM

BradF ignore the guy above me instead. Don't do it, you'll ruin lives, reputations, lose jobs. It's not worth it and you'll destroy a family for just a few minutes of pleasure. Keep it in your trousers, be the better man, be disciplined. You need to have standards. Don't mess around with married women.

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by Anonymous on Jun 21, 2023 at 6:31 PM

Yeah, she totally wants you! You should show her your dick.

by Anonymous on Jun 21, 2023 at 8:12 PM

Don't dip your pin in the company's inkwell.

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by Anonymous on Jun 22, 2023 at 4:00 AM

Very tricky isn't it?
If she wants you and you stay safe,she may call you a faggot and insult you and if she wants you but ruins your life,it's still worse.
It's difficult to control the temptation but you will be advised to be cautious.
If there is yet another episode of buttons down and your Dick salutes her,let he see the bulge and wait for her response.
Despite the risks,should you still fall for her,let the action take place where no known person witnesses you two.
There are always chances that women use a younger stronger man to bump off husband's and implicate the younger man while getting away.
I would be in two minds,as you must have noticed from my response,too.
The temptation is too powerful .

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by Anonymous on Jun 22, 2023 at 7:43 AM

Call her at her desk and invite her into your office. When she arrives, be sitting on the front edge of your desk with your dick out. You'll know her true intentions soon enough after that. I guarantee it. In the meantime, line up another job, just in case.

by AdultOrphan on Jun 22, 2023 at 7:50 PM

All these comments who say "go for it" are thinking with their penises. You get found out, she tells HR or you break things off, and you'll be the one with the sexual misconduct charge against you. You'll never work in the same sector ever again.

by Anonymous on Jul 21, 2023 at 6:03 PM

There are arguments for both sides presented to you, most advocate not to do it.
No moral judgement, no religious crap from me, just my opinion having been there and done that. It lasted 6 passionate years. We ended well, still in contact occasionally.
However that started 25 years ago, it was a different world in the workplace.
Aside from the potential for absolute carnage of relationships and friendships and family if it goes wrong, there's the added bonus of possibly losing your job.
I'm not against it obviously, but exercise caution. Talk with her first, understand what you both want before. Son, sometimes the fucking you get, isn't worth the fucking you get.
Good luck

by Anonymous on Jul 25, 2023 at 6:17 AM

Ask her out for drinks then after a few smash it

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