Question For People Authentically In Love

Would it matter, or how much would it matter, if you found out that your husband cheated before you were married, but while you lived together and felt married?

He seems to think it's No Big Deal, but for me it changed how I looked at the time that we were the most in love.

I would not have stayed with him if he had told me he had cheated twice, if I had known.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 26, 2023 at 6:47 PM

Before marriage, I wouldn’t worry unless serial or lied. I thought my gf then wife had a deal that if we had sex with someone else we’d not hide it. Well like always, she reneged on the deal. Don’t be like that. Now we are divorced.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 26, 2023 at 8:36 PM

If he confessed after all this time because of guilt. Decide if you can get back to your good marriage. If you found out on your own, I would reason it the same as cheating in marriage. By all reasoning if you Cannnot come to accept with a short time frame, I would divorce and go from that moment.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jun 27, 2023 at 1:40 PM

Yes, I'd say get over it. It happened before you to were married

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