Mom In Charge

My mom and dad and I were staying in a motel room with two beds side by side. They took one, I took the other.
At night I was in bed falling asleep while my father was flipping through the tv channels. He started pulling at my mom’s pajama shorts and sticking his finger in there. My mom made him stop until he turned the lights off—when he crawled in bed next to her and laying in the spoon position, my mom goes “NOW you can put your hand on my bottom.” My dad growled.
I think seeing this showed how my mom was in charge sexually.