Is It Just Me?

Am I the only one who enjoys sex more when being paid for it?

I have both stripped and escorted off and on since my twenties... I have also been in relationships and in love. But honestly there is nothing that compares to being paid to be fucked.

In relationships it becomes about duty and routine. And maybe deep down I am just a cheap whore but honestly there is something just so empowering and flattering that a man would part with real cash to fuck me. It makes me feel super desired and slutty (in a good way) and honestly is often better than with a boyfriend.

I have talked to other escorts and none of them ever seem to feel this way. Am I the only one? Is it really just me?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 12, 2023 at 10:08 PM

I think it's rare but it does happen. When I used to escort, I didn't feel what you described at first, but once I started attracting well heeled customers, I did. It felt empowering because I was getting top dollar for my talents. Some guys wanted the "girlfriend experience" and it was exciting to know I was out of the league of most of these guys in terms of looks, and I was getting hundreds of dollars on top of it. Even the quick bang em and leave em clients became exciting after that.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 13, 2023 at 5:52 AM

i have selectively slept with several men for good money. I never hard escorted but i did exchange sex for money when the right opportunity came. Honestly it was hot. For me is was a side hustle not a job. It felt taboo, wrong (in a good way), and if he was married and cheating it really was an extra thrill. But i think for me that was because it was all just a kink and side hustle to me.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 13, 2023 at 7:40 AM

Selling your body over and over as if were nothing but a piece of meat is anything but "Empowering."

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 13, 2023 at 12:29 PM

Dear Ruth,
Please ignore that fool who posted comment #3.

I turn 70 this month.
I have been married three times and had numerous GFs.

And I must say that you, madam, are absolutely marvelous.
From my experience, I know for a fact that here are many other women who feel the same way but do not have to nerve to even admit they would love to do what you do let alone actually do it.

It is also very hot to finally hear the word 'empowering' used by a woman to describe how money for sex really makes her feel.

That word has been so overused by LGBT, Women's Libbers, Equal Rights Amendment women,
Me Too women, BLM women, Abortion Rights women, and any other group of often-angry females as a touchstone of liberation from an oppressive past.
I know because I've heard all the speeches over all these decades.

If more women had your attitude, the world would be a lot better place.
There would be fewer wars and better interaction between all peoples.

IMHO, you deserve nothing but the utmost respect and encouragement.
You are primo wife material, the whole package.
Don't ever change or let anyone beat you down with anachronistic social mores or guilt.

I would encourage you to keep seeking a guy that is on the same page as you about all this.
Most will claim to be, but there are actually many more of them out there than you might think.

For me, I just wish I was 30 years younger because I would love to meet you.
Best to you 

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 14, 2023 at 9:56 AM

Ruth, you are something very special.
You are the ultimate woman, wife material, the whole package, IMO.

So please ignore that third comment.
That person does not get it, not at all.

Because you are the first woman with the courage to admit how much she enjoys getting paid for sex and that it actually is 'empowering' to you.

I'm an old guy now and I wish I was 30 years younger.
Because I would love to meet you.

Your honesty is refreshing and so sexy.
There are plenty of guys out there that would die to have a girl like you.
Best to you in the future.

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