Another drug induced incounter.
The sooner you stop drinking the better for you it will be. You sound like my old girlfriend who I eventually dumped due to her drinking. She is now looking about a dozen years older then she actually is due to all the booze. Wanna hear about the time she got pulled into a car with 4 black guys who then raped and beat her? No I don't think you do, nor would you have wanted to be in her shoes. The front of all phone books has info on AA meetings; so yourself a huge favor and walk into one.
Why do you assume that she was drunk or is a pisshead anyway.
"don't remember the guys name, age, face, anything..."
That sort of says it all. The medical term for that is, "blackout."
One word: AIDS.